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My ex is the man of my dreams. Should I tell him?

Q.   This is a really sticky situation; I was with the guy of my dreams (since 7th grade) for about 5 months and I ended up cheating on him with my ex-boyfriend of a year and a half. There was a LOT of drama which included a lot of his friends and ...

A.   8 February 2008: omg this reminds me of me. I think my ex boyfriend is the one for me. Yes I am in 7th grade but he makes me feel so special when we are together. I have known him for 2 1/2 years. We started going out this year and we went out for quite a while. ... (read in full...)

I told my friend I have feelings for him, now his girlfriend doesn't want him to see me, should I let it slide?

Q.   my best friend and i have known each other for about 3 years now, and we were really close and we'd talk about everything. recently i told him that i had feelings for him, even though i knew that he was already seeing someone else. he took it fine ...

A.   7 February 2008: well i dont think you should let it slide because if you have feelings for him then just keep trying.She doesnt want you to see him obviously cuz she feels so competion.so go for it. Keep trying to go for it..Trust me it should go well at the ... (read in full...)

Saw my ex but didn't talk to him. Should I make the effort,next time I see him?

Q.   Hi i saw my ex boyfriend for the first time since we split last night down the pub and i really wanted to talk to him but was to scared,he was the one who wanted to split he said he did not feel the same and that we should stay mates. but the thing ...

A.   15 December 2007: i am younger than you but i am pretty good wit this stuff.You should definetly make a effort i saw my ex for the first time when we split and i was so scared to talk to him.I finally just said hi and he said hi but thats all.But now we r happy and ... (read in full...)

My bf loves me with all his heart....but I don't love him, I am still in love with my ex.

Q.   So i am going out with this boy that i have gone out with him on and off for the past year and i am with him again. The thing is i still love my ex and i think he loves me. The hard part is my boyfriend is so totally in love with me and i am not. ...

A.   2 December 2007: thank you all for your answers.I greatly appreciate it and i will take you opinions to mind.Thank you for taking time to help me!!... (read in full...)

My bf wants me to have sex with him next weekend...please help asap.

Q.   I am 12 years old and my boyfriend is 15. He told me the other night he wanted to have sex. I was playing around and said yeah ok then he was like do i need to bring condoms. I was like yeah then we didnt do it but still he wants to next weekend. ...

A.   2 December 2007: I am 12 also.I dated a 16 year old and he has had sex alot and got a girl pregnant but anywho...You are wayyyyyy to young to have sex. Sex changes everything..trust me.Next thing you know you will be preganant and he wont be there. I mean if you l... (read in full...)

I am worried I am turning gay...but I don't want to be.

Q.   I am a 13 year old boy and i am worried that i am turning gay. dont get me wrong, i dont hate gay people i just dont want to be gay. When i think about penises i get an erection. when i masturbate and i think about penises, i get an orgasm much mor...

A.   2 December 2007: Ok you are 13, Guys get erections pretty much to everything at that age. Don't worry it is just a phase and i am betting you will probably get over it. And if you dont want to become gay,then dont. It is up to you to make your choices not anyone e... (read in full...)

We broke up, now he's dissing me, but I still love him, should I just give up or can we be friends?

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. There was no betrayal involved and it was mutual, but he has been nothing but rude to me ever since. He says he wants me to be happy, but he makes fun of me with his friends and gives me mean and ...

A.   2 December 2007: My ex and I broke up to a little while ago and sometimes he disses me or makes me feel dumb and i still love him very much.He does it because he misses you and still has some love for you. My ex said we could be friends but we arent. Well kind of we ... (read in full...)

Depressed...

Q.   This is a very big problem and I need help. When I was about 3 years, I fell into a pot of hotwater and it affected my left leg, I mean a scar and when I was about 10 years, a dog bit me on my right leg ankle so I also have a scar. I am a very ...

A.   2 December 2007: Ok so i have some scars on my leg and actually a fairly large one on my lower leg. This is my theory show off what you have, dont be so insecure about it. If people dont like you for who you are and how you look that's their problem. If guys ask... (read in full...)

Do I have a right to be concerned here?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He's bisexual and I have never had a problem with it. He's never cheated on me with a guy, although in the past he cheated on me twice with the same girl. Anyways, the other night while we were ...

A.   2 December 2007: I think that yes,you should be concerned but if you have been going out with this man for a while and you love him or care about him then you shouldnt be worried. I am guessing he has the same feelings for you but then again,why are you with this ... (read in full...)

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