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I'm 16 (almost 17) years old. I am female, and my name is Dustin :] I am from the United Kingdom. I have a long term boyfriend, who I've been with for 20 months and he is quite a bit older than me! I have a fair share of problems of my own - from arguments with my boyfriend, to thoughts of suicide... Not to mention my confusing sexuality and feelings of wishing I was male... But I'm here to help others, because I have a load of opinions just waiting to explode! ^-^

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: Well of course, I'm not that stupid. I wouldnt meet him unless my mum would come with me to the airport! I'd be too nervous/shy anyway! :] He knows about the age difference, but he doesnt see me as a 16 year old, he just thinks of me as me! He did... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: Hi 'I Dont Lie'. Well, he's not really a stranger to my parents. He's written letters to them to tell them about his past, and tried to let them get to know him. But they just dont trust him. My mum sees him on my computer screen every single day... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: Thank you sooooooo much to the anon person who just posted! You said exactly what Ive been trying to say! :] Let me just repeat it... In keeping up with the integrity of this website-please give her a direct mature response or don't respond at... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: My posts are ALL genuine! And if you dont think they are, then you know where you can stick your opinions, cuz they are not wanted! Get a life and leave me alone! And as for the age thing. I KNOW I am 16 at the moment, but in 2007 when my boyfrien... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: Thank you Irish49 ? for your answer! It seems you are the only person who is actually taking Dear Cupid seriously... I just wanted to say, I am aware that internet relationships are like that, and when I meet him, I will have someone with me... But ... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: I cant believe this! Caught out? I'm only asking a question - I'm serious, I want you to take this question seriously. It is a real life, genuine question! Some help you people are! Get off this website, you're obviously fakes and can't answer a ... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: Because this is a completely different problem!.. If I dont get any good answers, I'm just gona move out and live with my boyfriend, and wont care if he abuses or rapes me (what my parents think he'll do!) because NO one would help me when they had ... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   3 February 2006: I have NOT busted up a family! My boyfriend LEFT his family for me, I never asked him to! He wasn't happy with his ex wife. That was NOT my fault, I've never even met her. I just said, I am over that now, I DONT wanna kill any of them, I'm fine with ... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   2 February 2006: This is so out of order! I'm bein completely honest about this. Don't think I'm joking about this. Please. I had an argument with my mum today about him coming to stay with us, and I wouldn't be lying about this, trust me, I'm not that sad and ... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   2 February 2006: What do you mean "im busted"??... (read in full...)

Why do I hate my boyfriend's ex and kids? He doesn't even see them any more!

Q.   My long-term boyfriend was married with 3 kids before he met me. When he met me, he left his wife and kids for me, because he was unhappy with her, and knew straight away that I was his soulmate. This was 19 months ago... The thing is, I feel...

A.   2 February 2006: Wow, I'm a psycho. Thanks for the compliment - not sure it was meant as one, but that's how I'm taking it :]... (read in full...)

We think it's time to meet, and want to be together. Why won't my parents let him stay with us?

Q.   Imagine I am your 18 year old daughter... I have been chatting to online/dating a 48 year old for 34 months, and we want to meet for the first time. We both love each other (we really do!) but dating over the internet is too hard for us, and we n...

A.   2 February 2006: Ah, I know. But I think I'm over all that :] I just get really bad mood swings... But anyway, enough about my other post. I need serious help with this one! Thanks! xo... (read in full...)

Why do I hate my boyfriend's ex and kids? He doesn't even see them any more!

Q.   My long-term boyfriend was married with 3 kids before he met me. When he met me, he left his wife and kids for me, because he was unhappy with her, and knew straight away that I was his soulmate. This was 19 months ago... The thing is, I feel...

A.   2 February 2006: Oh shut up! You're here to HELP people, not say things like that and make everything worse!! Grrrrr!!... (read in full...)

Why do I hate my boyfriend's ex and kids? He doesn't even see them any more!

Q.   My long-term boyfriend was married with 3 kids before he met me. When he met me, he left his wife and kids for me, because he was unhappy with her, and knew straight away that I was his soulmate. This was 19 months ago... The thing is, I feel...

A.   1 February 2006: If someone else comes along, he'll do the same thing to me?? I don't think so. He's a really lovely man, and I trust him when he says he loves me, and will never leave me, and wants to spend the rest of his life with me - get married and have a ... (read in full...)

Why do I hate my boyfriend's ex and kids? He doesn't even see them any more!

Q.   My long-term boyfriend was married with 3 kids before he met me. When he met me, he left his wife and kids for me, because he was unhappy with her, and knew straight away that I was his soulmate. This was 19 months ago... The thing is, I feel...

A.   14 January 2006: Oh, nice! Straight jacket sounds fun though! ^-^... (read in full...)

My bf likes to view anal/shemale porn..it bothers me alot. He says he's just curious-I think it's more. Help

Q.   my b/f looks at porn alot. he sneaks around behind my back to do it and even though it bothers me that hes looking at other women it hurts more to know that hes not open and honest with me about what he wants. I have noticed from the sites he looks ...

A.   13 January 2006: Hiya! Me and my boyfriend love transvestites and shemales! We look at porn together. Why dont you try that :) Ask if you can look with him, and not to go behind your back, because thats wrong in a relationship. Try to get him to open up. While youre ... (read in full...)

I'm a girl... But I think I should be a boy... But I have a boyfriend... Confused, please help!

Q.   I'd like to start by saying, I'm a *very* confused teenager. I've felt like I should be a boy for a while now, but my long term boyfriend tries to make me feel comfortable as a girl (Although, he HAS accepted that I want to become a boy, and has ...

A.   13 January 2006: Oh sorry. I am bisexual/pansexual. Which means I am attracted to males, females and transvestites. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I wouldnt leave him for anything. We have been together for 19 months, so no, I'm not using him as a ... (read in full...)

He views porn! It hurts like hell but should I just keep quiet and accept it?

Q.   ive had alot of problems with my b/f looking at porn . i have talked to him about it and he said he didnt know it bothered me so much and said he would quit but recently i found websites again that hes visited on the computer that he sliped up and ...

A.   12 January 2006: I have an idea for you. It's something I'd do, because my boyfriend and I enjoy looking at porn together, it gives us ideas of new things to try with eachother... Make an agreement with your boyfriend, that he's allowed to view porn ONCE a week, as ... (read in full...)

I'm 38-he's 25..his family won't meet me..his mother thinks our relationship is 'disgusting"! Need advice

Q.   Older Woman Younger Man I'm 38 and my bofriend is 25. We have been dating for 1 1/2 years. We love each other dearly. The problem is his family... they dont accept our relationship and refuse to meet me.. his mother said that our relationship is ...

A.   12 January 2006: Okay, first, *dont* split up from him because of this! If you're happy, then stay together! Thats ALL that matters! If you stand strong and dont give up, his mother will come to accept it over time... I am a 16 yr old, and I am dating a 47 year old, ... (read in full...)

I found naked pics of men on his computer! I'm shocked..what should I do?

Q.   Mrs Confused.............. I have been with my partner for 4 years and we got married 2 years ago, i thought i knew him well, but just before christmas i found naked pictures of "men" on the computer so i started deleting them, but every time i d...

A.   12 January 2006: Hiya Mrs Confused. Firstly, you should talk to him! Im sure theres a reasonably explanation for this. If he says he "likes" looking at men, *dont* worry! If thats the case, that doesn't mean he's gay, or whatevers going through your mind at the ... (read in full...)

23 years between us. Could it work out if we really love each other?

Q.   Do you think that a 23 year age difference is ok?? I'm 17 and he's 40, and he says that he really loves me, and while I don't think I love him yet (we've only known each other a few months) I do really care about him and can't stop thinking about ...

A.   11 January 2006: Hey, just posting again, cuz I just created an account. My last post was anonymous! I'm the: "A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006)" person :) Just so you know who I am! xoxo... (read in full...)

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