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The ex-factor: Help and advice

He doesn't believe that I am over my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2250 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - So I met this guy via a dating app 9 months ago, we messaged for about 2 months but he was wary to meet up as he was still not entirely over his last relationship. I wanted to meet him but in the end he freaked out, back tracked and asked me not to ...

I need your thoughts on how to sort this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2251 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Recently with the past 2 months, my boyfriend of nine years and I ended our relationship. Our relationship had it’s good points, but overall was very toxic and tumultuous. He has a pre-teen daughter and myself an 11-year-old son. He’s been my ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2247 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

I cannot tollerate my ex husband so why do I feel angry and rejected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2254 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - I absolutely know that I cannot stay with my husband. We are near divorce and there are things I cannot tolerate about him. However, I still ache, I still miss the good stuff....and honestly word of his new relationship is killing me. I have ...

Should I fly 4,000 miles to go see my ex? Would it be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2258 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - So... we’ve broken up for 5 years after an incident and subsequently I moved home to my home country. Contact was lost eventually as we were sick of crying over the phone. Recently, I thought I saw him whilst on vacation and sent him a text. He...

I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2252 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men. I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back tog...

Engagement called off due to past relationship how do I fix things?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2263 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - I was engaged to a wonderful guy.He is a virgin and have very high Morales and values.However, i lied to him about my past relationship and virginity. Engagement called off due to videos and pictures of sexual activity and intimate ones,ta...

I'm dating a new guy but I'm still not over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2272 days ago

6 October 2018 (F) - I am 15 , 16 in a few weeks .About 3 months ago , me and my boyfriend of a year broke up and over the summer I gave myself time to get over him . Once summer ended I got back in touch with a boy that I’ve known for about 2 years , we started to hang ...

Struggling to get over ex and finding it hard to look at dating again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2265 days ago

3 October 2018 (M) - Hi all, I guess this is a slightly multi-layered problem. Firstly I am single as of close to year ago. I mention this as I feel it potentially explains certain things as of yet mentioned. It was a strange breakup that never really had clos...

Why am I contemplating taking a job that makes my abusive ex my supervisor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2277 days ago

2 October 2018 (F) - I'm not even sure why I am asking this question, when the answer seems so obvious. I think I am finding it difficult to trust myself not to get involved in this weird situation, out of desperation really, and because I've had to force myself to do ...

What is the healthiest way to deal with this relationship situation, is it insecurity or what exactly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2275 days ago

2 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, so not so long ago my boyfriend of 8 months which is older than me, we were talking and I guess that during our conversation something triggered him to talk about a girl, who last year (Feb-2017) he met in his work area, she is a Senior ...

On social media he blocks me, unblocks me, friends me then unfriends, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I have no idea where to begin I am only hoping you all can offer some advice. So I was with my ex for three years, we were engaged at one point, but I broke it off after our twin babies were born stillborn. We stayed in a relationship we just ...