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Archived questions from: April, 2019 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I feel trapped I don't want to hurt him but I want to break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

28 April 2019 (F) - I think its Time to break up with my bf of 4 yrs He is not a bad guy and we had alot of teething problems when we first got together but we fell in love and he moved in with me and my kids. We had a baby together but during the pregnancy he wasnt as ...

I don't think he's over his ex yet. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

23 April 2019 (F) - To cut a long story short...A guy I’ve dated previously (but never been in a relationship with) and someone who remained a friend for about 5 years suddenly exited his toxic relationship of six months. I hadn’t seen this friend in a year or so but ...

How could I allow this guy to use me for sex?! I feel awful and I've lost all trust in men!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

20 April 2019 (F) - I’ve recently came out of a long term relationship so I’m very new to dating.when I went out with friends I met a great guy, we chatted a lot and there was an instant spark between us, we exchanged numbers, we spoke a lot over the phone for about a ...

She is the one who left me so why is she lashing out and treating me like crap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2045 days ago

16 April 2019 (M) - I was with this girl for 2 years, and when we were together she told me that she loved me and wanted a life with me. about a month ago she turned around one day and told me she has been unhappy with me for months and broke things off. since then she ...

I’m afraid his drinking will kill him—am I overreacting by giving him this ultimatum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2043 days ago

15 April 2019 (F) - Hi, My husband and I have been married for 10 years. He is an excessive drinker and over the years I have done everything to help him. He was recently diagnosed with heart failure and i blame myself for not doing more to stop him.When he was ...

I think I am being manipulated into being Plan B

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - My ex who dated me for almost 5 years suddenly blocked me on whatsapp and 3 weeks later sent me a break up letter. I did not react but I cried and still cry. I went online 2 days ago and saw that his ex wife has new pictures in his new house wh...

I suspect my ex set up my (now also an ex), boyfriend to cheat on me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2046 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. I go to his house every weekend for Friday and Saturday night, and he comes to my house usually to stay the night on Wednesdays. He's been a complete sweetheart to me and we had good plans for the ...

Will he take me back even though I have acted like a nutter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2045 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I posted once before - see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everything-was-perfect-until-he-lost-his-nan.html Since then it’s all been pretty messy.. I went a little psycho for a while, kept trying to contact him etc to which he completely ignor...

I have neve wanted children, husband is being pressured to adopt his orphaned nephew

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2046 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - My husband and I are both 29 and child free by choice. His sister and her husband, both 40, passed away in a car accident two months ago. They left behind a 9 year old who is currently living with my husband's parents. Long story short, his paren...

How do you break up after 2 dates with a nice person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2049 days ago

8 April 2019 (M) - How do you break it off with someone who has been very nice and seems very keen but is maybe a bit too full on after 2 dates? What words would you use to not hurt their feelings?...

Does he care or not care ... he keeps contacting me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - I have an ex who reached out to me six months after ghosting me, and tries to pretend nothing came between us. I don’t respond, and he later replies in a passive aggressive manner as if to say “don’t worry I don’t care anyway”. A bit of history, ...

I'm unhappy in my relationship but feel stuck because we live together and share a rental contract.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2055 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - So backstory: I've been in a relationship for 2 years and recently I've been thinking a lot about how he doesn't really make me happy anymore. I've spoken to a few friends about this and they have suggested breaking up which is much easier said than ...