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Archived questions from: December, 2018 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I know I deserve better, so why am I so sad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2183 days ago

29 December 2018 (F) - I'm angry and sad. 5 days before I'm supposed to move into an apartment with my boyfriend he gets cold feet and tells me he doesn't think it's a good idea and says he wants to end the relationship. He confesses to me that he couldn't be hims...

How do I change my patterns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2182 days ago

29 December 2018 (F) - I have come out of a very long term relationship where my partner 'parentified' me. I've read a lot about how there can be a passive / active dynamic (or divide) between partners, where one acts like the kid and the other is positioned as parent, ...

Older man wont leave his girlfriend for me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2165 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - I started an emotional and physical affair with a man I work with around this time last year. He started seeing someone about 3/4 months before me and him started talking. He's 15 years older than me,I'm 32 he's 47. We connected on a level I never ...

She sent me a text saying "lets break up" but I didn't even know we were in a relationship???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - My close friend keeps refering to our friendship as "Relationship". Recently we had a fight and she texted me saying "Lets Break Up".Does that mean we are into a relationship?...

Boyfriend lied about moving overseas to keep sleeping with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2186 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - My Boyfriend and I broke up I'm very depressed this Christmas we had been together for a year with a 2 month breakup in between because he refused to tell anyone about me... He claims to be private I took him back because I don't believe he was ...

My ex took out credit cards in my name without my knowledge is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2192 days ago

20 December 2018 (F) - Hi. I broke up with my ex about 2 years ago and it was not an amicable break up. It was tough. And very difficult. During the break up he told me he had taken out 3 credit cards in my name totalling about £4/5k of debt. He also told me that he had ...

How do I accept that he’s moved on with his new girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

18 December 2018 (F) - I am struggling to get past the fact that my ex-husband (of 20 yrs) has met a woman from another country on a dating website whom he has visited 3 times and holidayed in Europe with. We have a child who he is supposed to have for part of Christma...

Why did he still help his supposedly awful ex despite whatever she did to him? Is he lying to me about his feelings for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - Hi, i hope i can get some advice here to move on in my life. I have been with my boyfriend coming up two years, we get on well and i feel we are compatible. but there is a problem. My boyfriend went to America when he was 19 years old, stayed with...

How do I stop thinking about my married colleague and convince myself that I don't love her in order to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

15 December 2018 (M) - Hi About 10 months ago I split up with my long term partner. In this months leading up to it I had what I'd describe as an emotional affair with a married woman in my office. My ex partner didn't know, the two just coincided. I knew couldn'...

Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2198 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I'm just curious for other people's experiences, although I know every one is different. Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you" ? My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 8 months and are e...

2 months before our LDR is to end and we are to be together my fiance breaks up with me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2204 days ago

7 December 2018 (F) - Dear cupid , I was engaged for almost 1 year and a half , my fiance and i had a long distance relationship, he is deployed and at the end of this year we were planning to start wedding planning and for him to stop deploying and settle down , bu...

I don't know when to cut off this FWB relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

3 December 2018 (F) - I have been dating a guy for three months now. He is quirky and fun, we have had some adventures and I enjoy my time spent with him. But my particular situation, I am only in my current location for 2 years and then I am moving away. Because of this ...

I feel like I need her permission to leave the relationship. Is she crazy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

1 December 2018 (M) - Hi everyone, I need advice about a girl who I think is totally crazy. I am 26 and she is 33. Bit of an age gap but she seemed very nice so i thought i'd give her a chance. I decided now I don't want to be with her but I want to know if I did an...