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writes: ok so i hope no one will be offended by this question, i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. at the beginning of our relationship, he said he did not like receiving oral sex, he said "its just not a turn on for me" but then last night, he asked me to do it for him so i agreed and did. he said it was fantastic and that i had to be amazing at it because he doesnt usually like it. i swallowed last night and he said that he loved that and that i should always do that. i just kind of laughed and he said "no im serious. or let me cum on your face. that would be so hot. oh wow." i really dont have a problem with letting him do this, but why all of a sudden did he enjoy receiving oral sex if he has not liked it in the past with ex gfs? and why would he want to cum on my face... why is that a turn on? guys, would that be a turn on for you? any advice is helpful. thankk you in advance! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): Can't see anything nasty or degrading about it. Hell, I love it (and not as the one who's firing!) Sure it probably originated in porn...so what?
He wants to because he thinks the idea is really sexy. Some people agree, some don't. Why does he want to, why does he find it a turn-on? Well, it's pretty out-there and slutty. With all due respect to Rae 1031's advice, I'm pleased to say that in my case, it hasn't led to any donkeys yet.
So the only relevant question here is: do YOU find the idea a turn-on or a total turn-off, or somewhere in between? Your statement that 'i really dont have a problem with letting him do this' indicates you're at least up for the idea. As for 'why all of a sudden did he enjoy receiving oral sex if he has not liked it in the past with ex gfs?' they maybe used too much teeth, an occupational hazard for inexperienced fellatrices/munchkins.
If you don't want to, then don't do it. If you do, go for it. If you're not sure, I think the golden rule is usually to try it and see how it feels.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): well personally I would cum on a girls boobs. but I guess hes been watching too many pornos. Either that or he just wants to try it out
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): It could be that he wants to cum on your face because you are pretty :)
Not my thing though. It's like ruining a nice picture. I'm an 'in her mouth' or 'on her boobs' kind of guy lol.
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reader, Rae1031  +, writes (4 October 2009):
While there may be nothing wrong with this as long as you don't mind, you do need to keep an eye on things. I am speaking from experience. Since this is not a natural act and also not in his nature he obviously saw it on a porn. This may not seem bad, but he should involve you. I mean if he is watching porn without you involved and then taking the parts that look good to him and "testing" them out on you then sex will become less and less about you and rotate around the images of the porn in his head. What happens when he sees two woman with a donkey and expects you to live up to that too? All I am saying is sex should be about two people and if he is asking you to do new things out of the blue, he should be communicating his reasoning to you. What if he said "hey babe, I saw this hot looking woman on a porn doing this and I wished she was doing it to me, so how about if I close my eyes and think about her and pretend I am with her instead of just you - it will make me happy" would you still be OK with it? Or maybe you will see it as hey at least he is not cheating. Maybe he's not, but that could change quick when you are not able to be two women and a donkey for him, then you will leave him no choice (in his mind) but to find (or pay) somebody to play the role and make him happy. OK two women and a donkey is sick and extreem, but don't think this isn't how it starts. Be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): I personally think it's a very much overrated pastime, but having said that, some women are a lot better at it than others. You're obviously one of those women that have no objections to it and is rather more skilled at it.
The cumming on the face thing is probably what he's seen in a porn film, and to me that's rather unnatural. Of course, everyone is different and to a lot of men it would no doubt be a big turn on that you would be willing to submit to what I think is a degrading act, and little different to being pissed on. There's nothing particularly harmful about it, just unpleasant for the woman.
It basically boils down to the fact that if you both enjoy something then there's no harm in it, and if it enhances your love life so much the better. The main thing is that you only do something that you actually want to do and enjoy doing, otherwise there's little point in it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Maybe he saw a porn film or something. This, for some reason, is a common fantasy for some males. Personally, I wouldn't want to because I have to kiss that face afterwards. Maybe he wanted to experiment or something. The important thing is that you're actually comfortable and happy for him to do this to you. Don't degrade yourself, be sure you really want it to happen.
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reader, charlie p +, writes (4 October 2009):
It is a turn on, yeah. Exactly why it is I couldn't say, but it is.
And maybe you just give better head than some others? I wouldn't say it's a problem, if you're comfortable and you like him enough keep experimenting.
Enjoy!
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