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writes:I am 22 and recently started dating again. I was with my previous girlfriend since I was fourteen and have not been with another woman since. I dated this woman a few weeks ago who had been on the singles scene and dated quite a few men. Anyway we went on a couple dates and started getting a little touchy back at my place and she unzipped my pants and put her hand in and kind of let out a small gasp. She quickly pulled her hand out continued kissing for a while, and then she went to the bathroom, said she felt sick and left. I have not heard from her since; she will not return my calls. I guess I always new I didn’t have a large penis (Just shy of 5 inches) but I figured I’m at least average and it wouldn’t be an issue. At least it never was with my previous girlfriend. My question is should I try to make the relationship stronger next time before my penis is exposed?
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reader, tc1017 +, writes (5 October 2009):
tc1017 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo do you think its fair to the women to hide my size until she gets attached and then spring it on her all of a sudden, where she now has feelings and is disapointed and has to live it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009): No you did nothing wrong.
Anything around 5 to 6 inches is normal so your fine.
Its impossible to know why she did that, she might have been ill and just be too embarrised to face you again after that night.
I would forget about it and focus on the next girl. Never force sex on a woman just go with the flow and you'll always have a good time
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reader, Divorced@23?  +, writes (4 October 2009):
In my personal experience size does not matter but does matter to some women. If size mattered to her then she wasnt worth having around. As to your question on should you try to make the relationship stronger next time before your penis is exposed, do what you feel is right. If you want to wait, then wait.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
Well, yes. But in fairness, this woman sounds like she wasn't worth your time. There's nothing wrong with you, but you should take relationships as slowly as you want to. Frankly, who cares waht she thought? you'd be better off finding someone better.
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