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Why does this girl tell me that she masturbates?

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Question - (18 March 2012) 10 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Please don't laugh

I'm 23

I have a friend.

And this girl. She will text me randomly or tell me randomly that she masterbated.

Like I'm confused.

Why would a girl tell a guy she masterbated?

Is that good for me? Or bad that she tells me this

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012):

she wants you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012):

Just ask her if she wants a helping hand.

This could be good if your interested in her, so go for it.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (19 March 2012):

Anonymous 123 agony auntShe's interested in you and probably this is her way of getting you to think about her sexually. There is no other reason why a girl would tell a guy that she masturbated because its in bad taste and crass to talk about this with someone who is just a friend. Simply put, its to get you to bed with her. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? That's for you to decide.

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A female reader, agneeman South Africa +, writes (19 March 2012):

agneeman agony auntMy first response is that she is trying to impress / seduce you. It might seem silly but she may really like you.

That, or she thinks that telling this to random people makes her "liberated" somehow...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012):

This is either really good, or really bad, for your chances of hooking up with her.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (18 March 2012):

Danielepew agony auntMay I only add that you should ask her why she is doing that. Just like that: "Why are you telling me this?". Don't make it sound judgmental; just make sure you know why she is doing it.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (18 March 2012):

janniepeg agony auntI think you should respond it with cool, sounds like fun and not be tempted to ask her more about the experience. She is teasing you, or flirting. I don't know what her intention is. If she is interested in you more than just friendship there are better ways to do it.

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (18 March 2012):

Denise32 agony auntIs this girl a friend of yours?

It seems highly inappropriate for her to be telling you such a very personal thing. Maybe she's dropping a hint that she wants to have sex with you?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012):

Hmmm..umm personally i would say that she probably likes you and thinks that by telling you these things, she believes that you might find it a turn on......or shes being a tease maybe the next time she txts it, ask her what she wants/why she is telling you

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (18 March 2012):

Danielepew agony auntThis is something women don't usually share. It could be bad or good.

"Good" means she wants you and is giving you an "indirect" clue to it.

"Bad" means she just wants someone to tease.

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