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Why do guys like anal sex with women?

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Question - (9 December 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2010)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Why do guys like anal sex with women? Is it because it feels different or a bit "dirty?"

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A female reader, dmartin89 United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2010):

dmartin89 agony auntNot all guys like anal sex. My first boyfriend wasnt keen, my second didnt even want to try it and my current partner of 2 years isnt bothered by it, he would rather not do it than do it.

We have only done it a couple times, and this was when we were quite tipsy and horny.

I asked him what it was like and he said, nothing special, i only did it because i knew you wanted to! To him, it isnt much different than vaginal sex, but he isnt all that fussed about sex anyway becuase we have it quite often.

All guys are different!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010):

I personally like the feel of vaginal sex more. The only reason I crave anal sex is I LOVE the female ass, and putting my cock in there is so taboo and exciting to watch. So I vote for "dirty". But it is literally "dirty" sometimes, which is a bit of a turnoff, so it is a chancy proposition. I dont indulge much...and my GF isnt wild about it either. She likes my finger in there tho, and that is usually enough to get me riled up, so I leave it at that usually.

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A male reader, oopslookout United States +, writes (9 December 2010):

oopslookout agony auntI am a 46yo male and have done rhis one time in my life. I belive it is that guys like to shoot off inside a woman and with anal there isn't a chance of them getting pregnant

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (9 December 2010):

TimmD agony auntdoublejack hit the nail on the head.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (9 December 2010):

dirtball agony auntHaving never had it, my interest lies in curiousity. I wonder what it feels like. Still, I don't wonder enough to ask for it. I'll only do it if I'm asked to, or maybe if I find the right girl who likes to try new things in bed.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (9 December 2010):

chigirl agony auntAnal sex doesn't hurt for the woman if it's done right... Just to mention that. If it hurts, you're not doing it right. It's tricky business however, for the more experienced lovers only (the in-experienced will just cause pain). And then in addition it's a hit or miss, some love it, others hate it.

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A female reader, Taylaa.x United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2010):

Generally anal sex is done a lot in porn films, and i think this is a huge thing for some guys. A lot of guys would love to re animate a porn film, and i think thats why most men try and get their partners to do it.

plus because its tighter and it feels better. Bit selfish if im being honest.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (9 December 2010):

The Realist agony auntI think that it does have a kinky aspect to it but it is also the fact that it is much tighter, producing more friction. There is also the freedom of not being able to get pregnant which for some guys may make the experience alot better.

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A female reader, laura.c.m United Kingdom +, writes (9 December 2010):

i once tryed it with my boyfriend and i think it was great but it was a one off

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A female reader, loveistheanswer United States +, writes (9 December 2010):

loveistheanswer agony auntI believe that also it could be because the anal hole is tighter... but this also means that it is very painful for the female. Does not feel natural. It feels painful. I know there are some women who can put up with it, and even enjoy it. Not here, no thank you, lol!

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (9 December 2010):

chigirl agony auntI believe it's even simpler: guys like to stick it into any hole on the female body. If they could they would have poked your ear. Just for fun, and for variation.

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A male reader, doublejack United States +, writes (9 December 2010):

The answer is yes to both. It feels different, as in tighter than vaginal intercourse. For some guys the "dirty" / taboo part of it is a turn on as well.

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