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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months now we just got back from vacation had a good time had little fights here and their no biggie but what bothered me is their was barely and sex... she was just about to get her period and she seemed as if she doesnt want to do things wit me as much as she did in the begging.. i asked her about it she said she didnt want to have sex as much because she felt that i was going to leave her? i show her alot of affection and this is my first serious relationship so yeah theirs things i needed to fix upon and know how to make her feel better but still if she loves me as she used to say she does then i dont think it shud be much of a problem ... so we come back from vacation and she has her period and she said shes been in alot of pain so i give her massages and such but she seems like shes being distant with me she always used to check up what i was doing always say i love you and now it just seems like im doing everything and putting most of the efforts in this since we got back from the vacation in which i belive we had a good time.. i asked her why she is being this way and she says its because she was in pain and isnt herself right now but honestly i feel like she starting to talk to her x again because i asked her oh so have u talk to your x at all and she said no in the begging and then shes like oh no wait yeah i have so idk i asked her if she still loves me she said of course i do but for my gut instinct i feel like she misses her x and shes hidding something from me but i do spend everyday with her ..should i make her chase me more?
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reader, Sunshinee':)  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Babe, maybe you should stop questioning her? Ask her if she's okay, always tell her that you love her, but make sure that you aren't irritating her. If she isn't herself at the moment, then she needs to get over it in her own time. I'm sure it's nothing that you've done. And sweetheart, if she leaves you for her ex, then she wasn't worth you anyway. You sound like you're a complete darling to her, but if she doesn't feel the same, you have to let her go her own way. Maybe don't see her all day every day. Go out with your friends with out her and let her go out with her friends without you. You don't have to be together all the time. Let her spend some time with her mates and then when she does see you, she'll be happier and more relaxed. If you still feel like she's hiding stuff from you after you've tried that then you just need to confront her in a non-aggressive manner and ask her what's going on. If she says that nothing's happening behind your back, leave it and trust her. But if it turns out that she has been seeing her ex whilst being with you, break up with her. She doesn't deserve you. You can find someone better, who appreciates you. I hope that this helps you x
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