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We have unprotected sex. Could i be pregnant?

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Question - (25 August 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *YCSS writes:

I think i'm pregnant.

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and a few weeks. Anyway we started having unprotective sex last month and my period came on and last month and after my period went off everything was messed up now that we have sex i bleed after. This never happen before, i get spotting in my underwear and i be having this clear yellow vaginal discharge and usually before my period comes i have cramps like 3 days before and last month my period came on the july 20. now it is the 20th of august and i not have any cramps.

And every time we have had sex he pulled out right before he bust. I had my period on July 20 and it went off on July 24 and on July 25 I had unprotected sex and today is August 25 and still no period but every moring when i get up to go to the bathroom a little bit of blood comes out but that's it and this started yesterday.

could i be pregnant? What should i do? Should i get a pregnancy test? I'm having most of the signs of pregnancy?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007):

We had unprotected sex with my fiancee on the second and forth day of my period and on the last day there was alomost no blood. He came in me both times, because I told him it was safe to do so. Basically the next day and a half (day 5)i had those strange cramping on one side, and lower back,like pulsations or someting. I also am not eating alomost nothing for a few days and when i do it does not taste much....like all the same. I did eat quite a lot usually. Do you think i got pregnant so fast and in those very unlikely circumstances, actually? My breasts are tender again, like before the period, and the nipples are bumpy. Is it ever possible!!? I mean it is some kind of a very strange thing then, cause there is no egg around during those days, right?

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (11 September 2007):

rcn agony auntclear yellowy discharge is a true sign of an STD. You need to get into the doctor to get checked. If you wait too long you could damage your system from getting pregnant. You're partner needs to get checked too. He can go to family planning with you, they run the tests there, and they don't notify parent, if you're worried about them finding out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007):

this sounds more like an std maybe you should go see your womens doctor

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007):

Your bleeding and spotting could be caused by implantation bleeding. Implantation bleeding occurs when an egg has been fertilized and implants into the lining of the uterus. Because the lining uterus is made up of blood, there can be a bit of blood expelled in some women.

Run to your local drugstore and get a pregnancy home test. I don't understand how you can stand the urge to know for sure if you are pregnant.

If you are good luck and don't panic. You are not the last unmarried teenager who becomes pregnant. Lots of single women have made it before.

Just remember, learn from your mistakes, don't judge yourself for the rest of your life. And if you are not pregnant please stop playing with fire.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007):

If you only had sex once, that day after your period ended, and he sucessfully pulled out, I don't think you're pregnant. It's unlikely you'd be ovulating the day after your period and it also unlikely to get pregnant from pre-cum. But it is not impossible either, so you need to get on the pill. Let us know o.k.?

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A female reader, Skeez United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2007):

Skeez agony auntGo to your doctor and get yourself checked out. If you had unprotected sex than there is a big chance you could be preganant. Even if he doesnt ejaculate inside you doesnt mean he hasnt given you his sperm. His sperm can come out while you have sex.

Go to your doctor and if your not pregnant. Go on the pill straight away. Ask for it or he might suggest it to you. Take it.

And if you are. then its your choice to either go through a termination or to keep it.

Goodluck hun

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (25 August 2007):

kenny agony auntYes there is every chance you could be pregnant, and i would get a test done as soon as possible. So many people think that the quick withdrawal method is safe, but it is not, as im sure you have heard of pre-ejaculation. Also more importantly there are STD'S to think about ( Sexually tranmitted diseases) to think about to.

Infact i feel silly telling you all of this as im sure you learnt all about this in you sex education lessons at school.

k

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A male reader, somewhat_anonymous United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

It doesn't matter if he pulled out. This question keeps coming up. Did they stop teaching sex ed in schools or something? He can still have sperm in his precum and all it takes is one that can swim really well.

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A female reader, SilverRose United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2007):

SilverRose agony auntYes. You could definetely be pregnant.When you have sex like this and withdraw at that point there's still a chance you could get pregnant.If you don't want an unwanted pregnancy i think you should stop this! it doesn't sound like you are right now but i would get a pregnancy test just to be sure. Your quite lucky actually if you've been doing this and haven't got pregnant! It is very risky.

Hope this helps

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A female reader, Astrid Spain +, writes (25 August 2007):

Astrid agony auntyes you probably are

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