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We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?

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Question - (5 September 2008) 21 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008):

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just an update. its not that i wanted to get pregnant but i guess this time it just happened or sumthing but i know i am too young to be a mom because i can be having fun and stuff. but i took a test on thursday again and it came out negative so i guess the symptoms were just not real. so thats that and yea.

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (17 September 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntHey girl. Just wanted to check in and see how you were doing. Any news?

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A female reader, michelleAKAmandi United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

michelleAKAmandi agony auntI agree that we can't judge how responsible she would be as a mother, if in fact she is pregnant, but it's scary as hell when this generation can say, "I want a baby, how do I get pregnant" in the same sentence. Know what I mean?

Keep us informed and if you are... well, we'll help you with questions there as well!!

Michelle

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntI totally agree with you, and hope she really isnt pregnant. I dont know whats happened in society where being so young and pregnant is acceptable. However, if she and her partner "love" eachother, and are willing to do whatever it takes to take care of the child, that would be saying more than even adults who have children who neglect them. We obviously don't know enough about her situation to assume she is completely incapable of raising a child (which dosnt mean I condone this behavior in all young men and ladies). Just because she is not educated properly in sex dosnt mean she will fall apart at the seams. (I know, I know, most 16-17 year olds do, but hopefully she will not). So, I take it back, I am not excited, I am curious to know the results of her symptoms, as I am sure we all are.

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A female reader, michelleAKAmandi United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

michelleAKAmandi agony aunt***seeing how she is only 16 or 17 AND

the fact that she DOESN'T know if, "he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?"!!!!!!,

I hope she IS NOT!!!!

I mean these are the years that she should be having fun and enjoying life to the fullest, BEFORE she plans on having children.

Not to mention if she doesn't know if there is a chance she could be pregnant in this instant, DOES SHE REALLY NEED TO BE HAVING A CHILD??????!!!!!!!

This generation has their priorities so messed up. Enjoy "YOUR" life before you bring another one into the world that you have to be responsible for 24/7.

Michelle

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntI was feeling sick days after conception. Every lady is different. Would it be a terrible thing if you were pregnant? I had those exact same symptoms. Not saying you are or are not pregnant, but those are in fact pregnancy symptoms. Ooooo, now I'm sper excited to find out if you are!!! :)))

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A female reader, michelleAKAmandi United States +, writes (8 September 2008):

michelleAKAmandi agony aunt3 days is not a significant amount of time to know if you are pregnant, a HPT is merely gonna cost you money for a negative and unsure test result, because it's TOO early.

You also have to consider the stress of worrying will make you suffer from your symptoms as well.

I would have your/a doctor do a blood tests Blood test will tell if you are pregnant about 6 to 8 days after you ovulate/release an egg from an ovary. It's ALWAYS right. But wait at least until the 6 to 8 days after ovulation to go have the test done. They will tell you it's too early right now.

First thing to do is: Stop worrying, no matter how hard it is, because this in itself can cause you to be late on your next period, make you vomit and nauseated.

Waiting is the hardest thing to do, but unfortunately we have too.

Good luck sweetie,

Michelle

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008):

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another update on this. i threw up on saturday and yesterday. and i been having headaches and feeling sleepy and eating alot. is it too early to feel these symptoms or no?

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (7 September 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntFor now, you wait. Take another test when you have skiped or expect your next period. FYI, sperm can live up to 5 days inside of you wether or not some of it came out or not. Another thing you can do is pay attention to your body. Are you having period like symptoms, a little nausia, mood swings, bloating, tender breast, spotting? Your body will tell you if something is going on. And think about possible options as far as IF you are pregnant, what are your plans? Have you discussed this possability to the potential father of this (?)child? Keep us updated, and if you find yourself expecting, dont be afraid to ask us about symptoms, options, and and any other questions you may have about this matter. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008):

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ok just an update on my question. i went and took a test n it came out negative but they said it was too early i got to go back in 2 weeks. but i didnt take no morning pill because nobody told me about it. so is there anything to do now? or is it too late?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008):

Guys I think she does know the answer to this question but wants some reassurance that there is a chance she will not get pregnant.

Okay yes there is a chance you will not get pregnant but there is also a chance that you will get pregnant...a much higher chance im sorry to say. Take the morning after pill right now if it is within 72 hours and then buy a pregnancy test to be see if you are pregnant. In the future I would be sure to go on the pill or use protection.

Good Luck!

Jennilynn

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntnot to be rude

but if you seriously dont know this WHY on earth are you having unprotected sex. Go try and get the pill and a pregnancy test. Straight away

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (5 September 2008):

Yos agony auntYour period two weeks ago puts you right in the most fertile period of your menstrual cycle. You have a high probability of being pregnant. If it's not too late take a morning after pill, and also tale a pregnancy test (bear in mind it can take a little time for this to show a positive result). In the mean time don't drink or smoke I'm case you are pregnant. And, whatever happens, please please use contraception in the future.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (5 September 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntTo Uncle Phil:

No, they don't :(. I really never had that class, even though I went to a semi-urban school where you would see lots of pregnant girls in the school.

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And original poster:

Go buy a pregnancy test because your risks are very high!

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (5 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntBoth answers before mine are correct. It can take the tiniest amount!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008):

YES! YES! YES! ... go to someone you trust and tell them, you need to take a pregnancy test- quick! You need to go to the doctors. Quick!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008):

Do they not do sex education lessons in schools in America?

1 little drop could contain a few million sperm, so how many million of them would you think he pumped into you? Then ask yourself how many of them it would take to get you pregnant. Answer = 1

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (5 September 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntYes, you could get pregnant. It only takes a drop to do the trick. Fluid always comes out of me after sex, I have 2 kids and am expecting again. USE PROTECTION!!!

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (5 September 2008):

baddogbj agony auntNo you are not safe. If he came inside you then you could get pregnant. That doesn't mean that you will but you could.

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A female reader, supernatural497 United States +, writes (5 September 2008):

supernatural497 agony auntIf I was you I would get the morning after pill. I did something just like u I got drunk at a party and had unprotected sex i didnt think anything was wrong but i got it just incase so u should do that.

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (5 September 2008):

superbunny agony auntHow can you possibly be having sex when you don't even know the answer to this question?!?

If he came inside you, regardless if some came or anything, you could be pregnant. Get yourself down the drugstore, get a morning after pill and a pregnant test (you'll have to wait 3 weeks before taking it)!

If you have unprotected sex or any kind you can get pregnant - even if he came or not.

Be safer in future, darling!

xx

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