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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm due on Valentines Day and no support from my kids dad. He haven't called nor text to see how I am feeling. More so how our son is doing. When we were working things out, I've mentioned about the doctors appointments, no response. I've talked to him about what the doctor had mentioned, nothing.I recently got offered a new job however, and what sucks, I have to put his info on my background check. I dread texting him about info I need on my paperwork, of course, he wasn't cooperating. I became very upset and said somethings I shouldn't have said. I asked GOD for forgiveness. I feel so depressed, alone, stressed....worn out. I got offered a job, start when I get off from maternity, he's not helping. He threatens to take me to court for half custody but gave up his rights for our daughter. I need some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice.
I do lean on my family. Some of it, I just keep to myself without causing a big argument. I seek counseling through my job. It helps out a lot. Just hate letting my higher up's know my personal issues.
Yes, they're numerous of women in my situations some worse or better off. If they can do it, so can I.
Thanks, again..
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Seriously, don't let this guy worry you. If he already gave up his rights to one of your children, why would he think he would be awarded custody of the other?
If he takes you to court, you will only win.
As far as getting information about him, all you can do is let the individuals at your future place of employment know is that he is uncooperative and that you will provide them with the info in future if you are able to get it. You can't get blood from a turnip, and if they're unwilling to accommodate you now, what kind of understanding will they give you in the future with your children (because stuff ALWAYS happens with kids.. they get sick, they get hurt, etc)
If you have family, I would lean on them for support. There are so many women in your situation, there has to be some kind of support group in the area you live in.
Good luck.
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