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female
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anonymous
writes: Hey..well there was a guy I liked and he went to school with my sister's bf soo he would ask questions about me soo one day he ask my sister's bf am I a virgin and my sister bf said yes and then the boy got excited and said he was goin to jack me off...so is that a good or bad thing..? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): A guy who is pleased that a girl is a virgin is not all so bad. He might just have a healthy respect for her self-respect.
But a guy that gets excited about your virginity when he barely even knows you? I agree that is trouble. Chances are, he will be very keen on screwing you and very bored with you afterwards.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (5 August 2010):
I agree with the others, this is a bad thing.
He sounds like a complete loser - one of those guys that will see taking your virginity as another notch on his bedpost. Not the guy that will genuinely care about you or treat you with respect. You deserve better than that!
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): He should respect you and congradulate you on being a virgin, and feel honored that you will speak to him. And, he should not be touching you sexually at all, if you are not married to him. IMHO
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 August 2010):
You can take it from a man that this is a bad thing. You'll be another notch on his bedpost, so to speak. All he wants his to have his wicked way, then he'll dump you. Bad thing. Avoid him. A guy who actually respects you won't suddenly get excited that you're a virgin then claim he will take it from you. A decent guy will accept you're a virgin and respect until you're ready. This guy is one of the dogs, and you shouldn't let him near you.
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reader, MansonGroupie +, writes (5 August 2010):
That is a very, very bad thing!
Steer well clear of this guy, he'll take your virginity then run!
Be careful.x
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
it's a terrible thing.
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