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writes:My name is Ella and i have this bestfriend called Mia. Mia is bisexual and has only ever been out with two girls. Mia got me into being a bisexual but after two years I stopped feeling that way. I have a boyfriend called Jack and we have been going out for about one week. Mia trusted him with her sexuality secret but also let mine slip too. I told him to not treat me diffrently because of it. He promised and he has not told anyone yet. He told me he loves me so much and Mia knows this. Jack went out with Mia for one week then dumped her for another girl. He never told her all this he told me and we have been going out for about one week already. One the first day we went out he snogged me. Mia also has a boyfriend called Liam and was really close to telling him about her sexuality until Jack told her not to. About three days ago I became mates with two guys. Daniel and Joe. Daniel has a girlfriend called Shauna and he and myself were on our own at the time and he was like really close to me. Like he wanted to cuddle me or something. I just walked away to grab my jacket. I think Daniel likes me. I also fancy Joe because he's funny and a great person. He gets jealous about me and Jack. I don't know what to do. Liam treats Mia like a piece of crap. He wants her then one minute he calls her a slag. She wants to split up with him if he keeps saying this. Should she dump him or not? And what should I do about this? I love Jack and want to with him forever but I also fancy Joe. Help?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010): aa Correct me if I'm wrong but you're still pretty small and are still going to go through a lot of changes. You'll start to understand true love when you're older :)
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reader, Traycie  +, writes (12 July 2010):
My advice to you is if you've only been dating this guy for a week then its probably just lust and not love and if you are startin to like this other guy then you need to be fair to jack and joe and to yourself and end it with jack so you can honestly get to know both of the guys better and see which one you like more and as for your friend mia she definitely needs to dump her boyfriend. If he is going to treat her like crap then she needs to dump him and find a real man or women who is going to treat her with the type of kindness and love and the respect she deserves
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reader, Fish Say Moo +, writes (11 July 2010):
eermm.. i would say that you should think about this one hard--do you only love jack cause youre going out with him or because he is really a nice guy?? and if you were going out with joe then would the situation reverse and you fancie jack again?? and then you would not have jack back because he would think you would just dump him for joe again.. also you have only met joe recently so you dont really know who he is.....what i would do is get to know joe more and then decide if you really like him.. i think that mia should be brave and dump liam because she can do better than him and he should not be calling her a slag because that is nasty and stuff.... if you dont like danial that close to you tell him to go hug his own girlfriend or something..
hope this helpes xx
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