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*3puremage1
writes:It is really hard to follow my heart because I am torn between two big emotions in my head. I have no idea what to do with her. I want to talk to her but I don't know how to face to her anymore after everthing happened between me and her. We don't see each other very often now because everyone is on study leave. However, last time when I see her while I was talkng to another girl, her face suggests a combination of anger and jealousy. Maybe I am wrong. She had told me like a month ago that she doesn't want additional pressure from me and thought is time to move on so I spent more time on other friends instead of her. Would this upset her?
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (20 June 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionToday I saw her in school but we both pretend each other are invisible. So, after school I sent her a facebook message asking her how ae exams but she didn't reply-She has seen it already.I think this shows she doesn't want to talk to me or I am just too bad for her. Anyway thanks for everyone's help. I really appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): talk to her still your probably hurting her if your not talking to her
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Eh, if she said she wanted to move on, i would steer clear of her as much as possible. You may very well have read jealousy and anger in her eyes when she saw you talking to another girl, but don't for a second mistake that for anything close to meaning she misses you and wants to try again with the relationship.
I think it's only natural for both sides to be jealous, after a breakup, if one or the other is envious of the other moving on.
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Well if your telling of her responses is accurate I am not overly convinced she knows what she wants. On the other hand it is possible your reading what you want into her emotions because deep down you obviously do want to talk to her. Having said that I am pretty much bound to point out there is a big lack of backstory here - why are you not talking in the first place. Saying alot has happened isnt really telling us alot. On that level id be loathe to make a final call either way.
Having said that ultimately, I do tend to think that if she said she didn't want to talk, you talking to her is possibly likely to upset her, the ball after all is now in her court. So, based on that id probably say yes you may well be risking upsetting her and therefore should possibly leave it. On the other hand, more detail required I am afraid. Please get back to us :)
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