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writes:Dear aunts and uncles.... Really need advice about a man. Where shall I begin...will give you the short version. Met guy I'm 31, his 27. Liked him. Usual stuff doesn't do relationships! Find out was in a 5 year one long time back which he wasn't happy in and other issues about why so anti relationship!!!! We get close...speak everyday see each other lots etc. Upshot!!! Tuesday he mentioned met woman, now I've only heard from once since then. What's going on? He has started a new job etc and is busy but I also know you don't go from speaking to do someone everyday to then nothing. It's been almost a week and one nice message compared to everyday. Am I being pushed away. We were getting very close and we both realised that, but I'm now all confused. Than Reply to this Question
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 Oh dear. Well, I have to say that he is now with this new woman. Don't buy into any of this new job and busy business. All rubbish. Obviously, I don't know how long you were with him, time frame, sex etc but it now appears he has moved onto this new girl. Let him go. He will probably move on from her too in a short whule. If, in a few months he gets in touch, well you know what to do! Don't respond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): He pretty much told you what's going on with him. He wasn't interested in a relationship (with you anyway) and now he's met a woman. You were never really in the running.To avoid heartache in the future, when a man says he doesn't want a relationship (regardless of the reason he gives), he means he doesn't want one with you. He is telling you, as tactfully as he can, that he is not romantically attracted to you. That or he's hinting that he wants sex only with no strongs attached.It appears he now wants some space to pursue this other woman. Give it to him and move on. Don't contact him or respond to him. You're single and free to find someone else.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (20 June 2011):
 i agree. don't be confused, it is obvious what's happened and i am sorry for you but did he promise you or lead you to believe there was any future for you? i hope you can move on too and meet someone who won't drop you as soon as a new woman appears in his life
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 June 2011):
 He met a woman.... he told you... Honey you are in the friend zone....
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