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7 months into marriage and we hardly ever have sex....and to make things worse I find out he has a fat fetish! What should I do?

Q.   only 7 months into a marriage and have caught him 4 times watching porn, 80 naked photos of ex in our bedroom, one tucked away in his drawer..obviously a favorite.random photos of naked woman in his home...just everywhere. no i didnt need to snoop ...

A.   12 July 2012: the one thing i didnt do was meet him on the internet.we meet in my country. spent a year together before we made up our minds that marriage at our age was ok (45) i never have even thought to marry before and this was to a man whos interests ... (read in full...)

I take things too personally, and am afraid he my get tired of it and break up. Help!

Q.   I am dating a guy of 16 for like 7months now but somehow i kinda of always screw things up.Am kinda too sensitive and take things too personally and he hates things but most times i can't help it.Now am scared that he may soon get tired of me and ...

A.   12 July 2012: i dont think you are the only girl walking the planet that could be accused of taking things to personally. im one for starters and i undertand your concerns about it affecting your relationship..but what are the things that up set you are you sure ... (read in full...)

Should I express my concerns? Or just go along with her excitement? She has already accepted a job in Porn industry

Q.   My girlfriend, 20 years lost her job last year and hasnt been able to find consistent work since. She came up to me a few weeks ago after talking to one of her friends about joining the porn industry. She is very interested and actually determin...

A.   11 July 2012: should you both go ahead with this...you have as good as sold your soul to the devil. no im not religious and im no brain surgeon. but the money will become addictive..you will soon get over whos screwin who. but while the good times roll and they ... (read in full...)

If the scar on my thigh going to turn guys off when I start having sex?

Q.   When I was little I was bitten by a donkey, and I have this massive scar on my thigh. I worry that when I finally have sex, men will be repulsed by the scar. Should I try and hide it with make-up or something??? ...

A.   11 July 2012: this is just to convince you...you are pefect just the way you are. me....complete stomach covered in scars from babies,tail bone large scar from abcess best friend...scar running the entire length of stomach sister..4 hip operations m... (read in full...)

7 months into marriage and we hardly ever have sex....and to make things worse I find out he has a fat fetish! What should I do?

Q.   only 7 months into a marriage and have caught him 4 times watching porn, 80 naked photos of ex in our bedroom, one tucked away in his drawer..obviously a favorite.random photos of naked woman in his home...just everywhere. no i didnt need to snoop ...

A.   11 July 2012: thank you for your ideas on what the hell to do. its a confusing place for me right now. and i appreciate other peoples views...this is a nice start for support..thanks again... (read in full...)

He says he isn't cheating, and I want to believe him, but I don't. What do you think?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years, we have always been happy until recently... i discovered a text on his phone from a girl saying "hey are you missing me, it was good with drinks the other night, u wanna meet wednesday, wat you doin...

A.   10 July 2012: sory i have heard the best excuses in the world..this is a fail... (read in full...)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

Q.   I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

A.   10 July 2012: 7months married...4 times caught on internet...no regular normal healthy sex life...totally and utterly distoyed as i find photos of his ex in our fkn bedroom (only 80 of them) and the seperate one in his top drawer.internet saved images of XXXL ... (read in full...)

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