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writes: himy girlfriend doesn't give me a blow job if i ask her she tells me first you lick my pussy and anal and suck my breast then i will do for you but i feel awkward to do to her . i really care about her . is it okay to do things what she asked .i think she neglects because i have a small penis for intercourse, but she is very fond of it. only she starts asking for intercourse but as soon as we get it in the bed she refuses please give me suggestions
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (23 September 2009):
I would tell her how you feel and that you don't want to do these things to her, sex and relationships are mutual things. If your not comfortable you are never going to enjoy the sex. I would say find out what she wants deep down form the relationship and see if you can't find other ways to enjoy this relationship which make you both feel comfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): Noone should dig their nails into your private parts....ew. Gosh you should know that x
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (23 September 2009):
 Your last message is deeply disturbing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni asked her she tells she need big one and then she arouses me and masturbates me and then as soon as i am masturbated it cums outs she presses roughly her nails pierce my skin i bleed and i fell as sleep unconscious she behaves rudely with me
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 If she wants certain things done to her, then I would suppose you want her to be happy, right? It isn't all about you, she's part of this after all.
As far as size. It really doesn't matter. If its about actual intercourse and she's reticent about it, perhaps its either pregnancy or she simply thinks that's overrated. Sometimes having actual intercourse isn't the same thing as having orgasms some other way.
I'd say try and make her as comfortable as possible and if she's aroused enough, satisfied enough and open enough, she'll do things for you too.
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (23 September 2009):
It is fine to return the favour with oral sex, in fact this would be the polite thing to do. Don't ask her to do something you yourself wouldn't be prepared to do. In todays modern era equality is key. Please each other and don't just work on one partner. The key is to enjoy doing these things together so if neither of you enjoy the giving but enjoy recieving you must either decide to both do it and not enjoy it or neither do it. You need to talk about what you want with your girlfriend but she doesn't sound unreasonable to me.
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