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female
age
30-35,
*ewelHeart
writes: Hi, I am 18 years old and decided to start experimenting with a relationship with another woman 2 months ago. The biggest problem is that she's 39. It was troublesome at first, but after a couple of nights together we both feel much more comfortable. However, I recently started college and she's been busy at work so the only contact we have is over the phone. Lately, she doesn't answer the phone when I call, or she'll answer and promise to call me back but never will. I can't get her out of my head and while she has told me that my calling doesn't bother her, I can't help but feel that I'm becoming more of a nuisance than a comfort. I've tried not calling for a couple of days but as far as I can tell she doesn't miss me at all. Am I doing something wrong here?
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reader, rcn +, writes (9 September 2007):
More than likely she's ending it. She may think she is saving your feelings, or doesn't want to hurt you by telling you. All she's doing is being a coward by not being honest. I'd let this one go.
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female
reader, lisa21 +, writes (3 September 2007):
she doesn't sound interested, not your fault, it just goes like that sometimes, sorry x x x
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (2 September 2007):
No, you're not doing anything wrong. The right thing here is not to call her anymore, and keep her in your memory as a good experience. Yes, you're becoming a nuisance; don't ever be one.
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 September 2007):
She could be genuinly busy, or she could be giving you hints that she is not interested anymore. The only way you are going to find out for sure is to ask her, at least this way you will know where you stand and can move on if needs be.
Take care x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): Confront her about it, it might seem harsh but you'll get you answer, then you can move on.
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (2 September 2007):
Sounds to me like she isn't interested anymore, bro. Sorry for the situation, you're not doing anything wrong.
Best of luck, take care.
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