He wants me to do a strip tease for him. I feel so self conscious about it. How can I please him and deal with my feelings about my body issues?
Q. My boyfriend and I are going away for a weekend, and he wants me to dress up, and give him a strip tease. I've dressed up for him before, but it makes me feel self conscious, but not overly so, because I pick outfits that cover up the bits I'm ...
A. 19 April 2011: I guess all women feel this way when it comes down to our body. I know I felt self conscious of my body after I had my first child especially becuase I have a c-section scar. But I learned that no matter what the person you are with will love you ... (read in full...)
Wife had an affair, no protection and now I won't touch her
Q. Wife having an affair This went on for a year and i didnt know. she said no condoms were used. That was it , I left. I got tested and no std's. she wants me back but all that goes through my mind was his fluids. I know after sex they leak out of h...
A. 12 April 2011: Nothing he "put in" was left behind. But before you get back with her you have to ask yourself if you have forgiven her for what she did? Also think of it this way before you married had she already been with someone else? If so why weren't you ... (read in full...)
Husband could never cum from anything other than actual sex?
Q. I wonder ,if you can help me figure out this strange sex problem. I live in a long term marriage, and we had good sex life. My husband was very highly sexual, and good lover. Now ,he has very serious sexual dysfunction. He is not medically ill, b...
A. 12 April 2011: As you said he is not medically ill but It' might be phycological. Maybe he can get "turned one" and then the light switch goes off. He might be focusing on other things rather than on the pleasure. He needs to relax and place his mind on a blank ... (read in full...)
He's horrible towards me but great with the kids, what should I do?
Q. Help!!! how do i get over the pain!??!!!!! my story is full on...well to me anyway. I have been broken up with my daughters dad for two years now and it would have to be the most horrible experience I have ever had....I had post natal severely....I ...
A. 31 March 2011: Don't move back with him. He can still be their dad but in a separate home. Your relationship with him has been over for some time so there is no need to go back. You can be honest an tell him that the best thing for your children is to stay ... (read in full...)
Why it is ok if my boyfriend hangs up on me but I can't do that to him?
Q. What do I do? My long distance boyfriend of about 6 years off and on was talking to me on the phone yesterday, and i was telling him about something important, i might have a brain tumor and have to go get checked next week. he wasn't even listening ...
A. 20 March 2011: honestly sounds like he controls the phone conversations you have. If he is a long distance relationship and he is acting this way, imagine if you saw each other on a daily basis. I'm sorry but sound like this is something that he would do if he ... (read in full...)
I haven't yet had an orgasm with him, I don't want him to feel badly.
Q. So I have been hanging out with this guy for over four months now. We have had sexual intercourse four times and I have never had an orgasm with him yet. He said something the second time and was like 1. you're nervous cause I just got out of a ...
A. 28 January 2011: I'm sure you already know this but not every woman will experience an orgasm. But if you want to you can try a various of things. When you feel "good" when he does a certain thing to you let him know. Also self satisfaction this way you can teach ... (read in full...)
How to get negative people out of you life?
Q. I'm a really calm person but this guy has got me so mad. He is really pervy I told him to stop saying things to me because they were making me uncomfortable. He follows me around like a dog and carry's on saying things I don't like. I tell him to ...
A. 28 January 2011: You can also talk to your parents. Then you can all go to your school and talk to the principal. You don't have to put up with this and he obviously has the bully type of attitude. I don't know how the laws work where you live in but you could ... (read in full...)
My live-in boyfriend refuses to do nice things for me asks me to pay him each favour he does for me!
Q. ok me and my boyfriend been together since 1998,we broke up for 2 years 2004 to 2007 he did he left. long story and i want answers for lots of things but my question today is why dont he want to do anything nice for me?? he got nothing for me this ...
A. 4 January 2011: I don't see you mention anything about him working. You need to stop buying him stuff and taking "us" out. Don't let him put gas in your car unless he uses it as well. In that case it's only fair that he did pay for gas and don't let him charge ... (read in full...)
He always accuses me of cheating, but I didn't!
Q. Hi... I would really appreciate your help, because i am really desperate now... My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now.. i never done anything that could make him think that i like someone else, except going out a few times, and ...
A. 30 December 2010: You said he doesn't trust you. What more do you need to know. If you are at peace with yourself then you have nothing to prove. I get that you love him but there is no way some one can love you and not trust you at the same time. If he tells you ... (read in full...)
Sex with an ex, then he had sex with another girl!
Q. I'm an idiot...the other night I decided to have sex with my EX boyfriend...I'm only 13 years old and he's 15. I don't even know how it happened I was just supposed to hang out with him cause even if we broke up we're still like bestfriends. But i ...
A. 27 December 2010: Well you have a problem. If you had unprotected sex you know what the consequenses may be. Besides if your bff said tht she heard the bed continuously creaking and the other girls hair was screwed up then your bff has nothing better to do. I was ... (read in full...)
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