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writes: My relationship with my girlfriend is going bad to the point we will most likely break up. I want to fix it, but she does not seem like she wants to. Can it still be fixed? Reply to this Question
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reader, missdee +, writes (7 September 2005):
If your relationship is going to a point where you will break up turn it into another direction. Talk to your girlfriend and see where things are going wrong. At least that way you will know which way to go, and if she is willing to even try. Lots of Luck !
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reader, kelly_ann +, writes (7 September 2005):
well you need to talk about how she feels about you, I think relationships shud be fixed if they can. All people go through bad patches im going thro 1 now if u can get her 2 realise how u feel then maybe you can fix it! good luck
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (7 September 2005):
 NO!
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reader, Happygoddess +, writes (7 September 2005):
You haven't specifically said why you feel it is "going bad and will most likely break up" so... my advice to you is to ask her directly in a non-confrontational manner how she feels the both of you could improve your relationship. Every relationship goes through rough times, but if both are willing to save it then anything is possible! At least then you will know for sure how she is feeling rather than guessing, and then can move forward from there. Good luck!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (7 September 2005):
 It's sad when a relationship comes to an end but it does need both of you to want it be continue for it to be fixed. If she is not willing, there is no point in you trying to save it. You need to speak to her and see how she really feels, as you say she 'does not SEEM to want to save it'. Have a good long chat with her and see what she wants for the two of you in the future.
Maybe it's just gone a bit stale, go out on a romantic date or something, see if there is still that spark. Good luck, I hope it all works out :)
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reader, Delila +, writes (7 September 2005):
It depends on why your relationship is breaking up. If it's because of something you did that you can really put your finger on then I would say that over time you could make it up to her. If you can't seem to pin point whats wrong then it would be very hard to fix things. In this case backing away and allowing the other person freedom to think is often the best move, fighting against what is inevitable only causes suffering. Make sure she knows you love her a lot then it's up to her. Hope this helps you!
Delila
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