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writes: Im 22 and I can only orgasm using a vibrator, I don't know wether this is a physical or psycological or physical problem, My boyfriend is very understanding and we have tried all different positions but it doesnt help. I was abused when I was 7 but I barely remember it. Please Help!!!
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reader, keeneye +, writes (10 September 2005):
Eh. Me too. No problem. Just pull the vibrator out with him, and let the party begin! A woman does NOT orgasm easily -- don't ever fake it. You'll only dissapoint him and you.
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reader, Delila +, writes (7 September 2005):
If you can orgasm using a vibrator while your boyfriend is there kissing or touching you. Try bringing yourself to orgasm on your own first but just using your hand. Could it be that the vibrating of the vibrator may have desensitsed you slightly. You have tried lots of different positions but have you tried man on top womans legs closed, its simple but can be effective. The fact that you can hardly remember the abuse doesn't mean that it won't effect you. I would recommend N.L.P. as a good therapy, especially when you want to fix your problem without dwelling on events of the past.
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