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writes: How do you move on after coming out of a relationship, when you love that someone who has left you so much its hurts!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): Hello 55. How are you feeling now?
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reader, AuntyYasmin +, writes (5 February 2006):
Yes time is all you need. You will grow as a person, and you can spend your time using that love on yourself, your family and friends! It is extremely hard at first, I have been there. But it does make you stronger.
Occupy alot of your time by new hobbies or a job to meet new friends. Go out with your friends and family for movies, bowling, nights outs if your old enough.
Enjoy your freedom. Just think positively. Maybe write down all your ex's negative points! Write down how you feel when you feel lonely. They all help a great deal. And perhaps pamper yourself? Get some new clothes, new hairstyle, do your nails etc. Let yourself feel a million dollars because you deserve it! Good luck!
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reader, troubled 55 +, writes (4 February 2006):
Oh the things lovers do when it's over ~ Oh the things lovers do when it's done ~ Find a cool bottle or a warm shoulder ~ Wake up older ~ And try to move on...
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reader, StarNews +, writes (4 February 2006):
 I do not envy you having to go thru heartache after being left by someone that you loved.
First, you need to realize that this person was not meant for you. Then you need to give yourself time to grieve. During that time, you will realize many things about yourself; how you lived your life for this person and now have to go on without them. You will wonder what you could have done to keep the relationship going. Eventually, you will see that you are better off without them, and become a stronger person who may not need someone in their life in order to be happy.
There are many emotions you will have to experience to get past the grieving process, and that is the only way you will be ready to move on.
Start spending more time with family and friends, and do things that you enjoy. Also, get to know yourself by spending time alone, enjoying your own company. When you are happy and comfortable with who you are, you will find many wonderful things that life has to offer and attract someone who was meant to be in your life. When, and if, you are ready for a new relationship, you will have so much to give to the right person.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 February 2006):
 Stay busy: read, shop, go to a movie, redecorate a room, anything to stay busy and occupy you thoughts. Your best friend is time. Good Luck, you'll get through it.
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