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writes: im i such a bad situation at the moment. I started uni in september, straight away met this amazing guy, but through my insecurities drove him away. Iv seen him since and slept with him, but i am obsessed!!!i think about him ALL THE TIME.he leaves university next term so chances are ill never see him again, but i really am crazy about him.I think he did really like me at one point but now he just thinks im weird and he likes another girl.do i tell him i like him?or move on?and how do i move on?x x x
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 The word "obsessed" stands out here. No guy wants a girl who is obsessed with him (and vice versa... I wouldn't want to be with a guy who I slept with and he became obsessed with me). Were you calling him a lot? Or maybe overwhelming him a little bit?
If you like him, you can tell him but try not to overwhelm him with your feelings for him. He might get a little scared off. These insecurities... you need to know that you're a beautiful, fabulous girl and not worry about what others are thinking or how much other's like you. Just trust that they enjoy your company. If this turns into a consistent pattern, maybe go to a college counseler for some help?
It's always nice to talk to someone about these things...
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reader, simonyyus  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 Well...for me its hard to tell the excat advice because u didnt put clearly what do you mean by "your insecurities" and "bad situation at the moment". However, i can tell you this. for the sake of your satisfaction go and explian how you feel about him and see his response. this help you one day to not feel guilty for not take all your chance. But the way i see it, if he think you are weird and dont want to share any of your hard situations, he dont love you as you expect. for me love is for both happines and sadness and for both good and bad times. Take your last chance and if you get negative response move on. You will find the real person for you....belive me he is some where out there...keep searching because life is all about searching our perfect need. and keep in mind through your searching path you will face hardship and experience good and bad life. but try to learn the best out of it. Best wish for you ok!!!
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reader, amanda_loves_u +, writes (20 March 2007):
 well if I we're you I would just move on. Maybe it wasn't so much that he was driven away by your insecurities but of the fact that you obsessed over it. No offense, but guys don't want girls that wallow in themselves, much less their inner personal selves.
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