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writes:I have this beautiful girlfriend for the last four years and everything seems to be going perfect for us. But I have a this strange behavior that whenever she puts on sort of a dark-red color nail polish , it turns me on big time and I feel like having sex with her immediately but I end up kissing her nails and hands. Though she likes me doing this but I have a feeling this something abnormal? Should I go for sex with her right at that moment or it would sound me being cheap? I would be obliged if you people could clear my mind on this.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 i think this is only a problem if the attention you pay to her hands ends up replacing a fulfilling sex life for you both, or you find that without the nail polish you cannot get aroused. otherwise, don't worry, lots of men have a thing for red nail polish
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reader, ValeJ12  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 I find Nothing wrong with this. It is indeed a fetish but I don't think there's anything wrong with that. :) I wouldn't mind if I was her. Just be careful and don't completely overwhelm her with all the sex and kisses. If she knows how you feel about the nail polish then she'll put it on when she really wants you. ;) Again, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Just be carefull when you see another girl with the same nail polish..
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 June 2011):
 Whatever floats your boat! As long as your fetish doesn't hurt anyone, what could be bad?
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reader, Tyedyedturtle +, writes (22 June 2011):
 You have nothing to worry about! Everyone has quirky things that turn them on. I personally love hands, in general. They don't make me want to bone immediately, but that is a part of the body I find extremely attractive, which others may not. So, to each his own! You aren't harming anyone or anything. So, have at it and enjoy yourself and this beautiful girl you seem enamored with! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): The whole reason nail polish was invented is to arouse men. The dark red polishes reflect blood, supposedly, which creates the impression of a dominant or powerful woman (supposedly!).
Yes this sounds like a fetish, but hey, its a really really harmless one, and it sounds like you love your girlfriend for more than just her hands, so if she doesnt mind it, then whats the problem?
Normal and not normal are really hard to define for sexual things, but so long as everyone is consensual and no one is doing anything they dont want to, then its fine! Dont worry, and enjoy each other, with and without nail polish!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 Yeah that be not normal unless you consider fetish behavior to be normal.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (22 June 2011):
Hi there. It's unusual perhaps, but like other fetishes such as high stilettos, or stockings and suspenders, I guess it's just another fetish.
Probably nothing so abnormal, nothing to worry about really.
If you did give into your urge to have sex whenever you see them, you will just wear yourself out!
Then what would happen is you'd eventually tire of the dark red nailpolish fetish and you would desensitize from it. Then boredom probably.
Enjoy it while it lasts, because it might not last beyond a few weeks or a month or two.
Perhaps it makes you think of your girlfriend as a prostitute - so it's kind of a fantasy thing.
Maybe you could ask her to not wear it for a few weeks and see how things go without the dark red nailpolish.
You might need to add more interesting activities to your relationship. Go out a bit more. Have fun.
Sometimes people focus on things like that because there's not much else going on their lives.
Variety is the spice of life, after all. Add more fun to your life, generally speaking.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 You have a fetish,and thats it...is it normal? Probably as much as can be.
If it turns you on and makes you want to have sex,well...HAVE SEX...personaly my fetish as ive come to realize is womens feet.
If they arent a certain shape,size or type then i probably wont want to hook up with her no matter how curvyliscous or attractive she is.
Does that make me a freak?...Thats for everyone to decide and have their own opinion regarding the matter,
all i know it gets me horny so dont appologise or second guess yourself,infact get your girl to wear that particular nail polish more often,
let her know it turns you on,but beware of creeping her out with it all like being all over her finger nails in particular, kissing them n all instead of being all over her,
just be subtle about it n all should be fine.
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