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writes:Hi I have a problem with trust and i don't know why. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 17 to 18 months now and I still don't trust him or any other bloke. I honestly don't beleive he has been unfaithful and I have never been cheated on or have cheated before but I have niggling thoughts I get sooo jealous all the time and its really bringing me down. We see each other alot and because of this I haven't time for friends and therefore haven't many left this also adds to it. I just want to be able to trust and not be so jealous but everytime I try I fail because I fear I'm missing something right infront of my eyes.I don't think my boyfriend is the problem at all i think its me anybody felt the same? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Hi thankyou for the advice, im glad i found this website and been able to voice my problem as well as look at other peoples issues i can relate to, since then iv been trying to just calm down and remind myself that my boyfriend is not the be all and end all. i can fully recognize how deeply unattractive jealousy is and that if anything me and my jealousy will be the thing that will ruin my relationship. thank u all for the advice x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): I know how you feel, i feel the same way about my boyfriend. I know he has never cheated and i know he wouldn't but i just cant shake that jealous feeling. Trust is the hardest thing in a relationship but if you talk to him about how you are feeling maybe there are things he could do to make you more comfortable. That seemed to help so far in mine. hope i could help a little.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): This sounds exactly like my other half and believe me its so damn hard. we are on the brink of splitting due to it, it causes so many problems. I can not speak to any sort of female and when i do, its as though i have been unfaithful, or have wanted to be. It really gets me down. you need to try and combat this before its too late
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 Jealousy is word the represents your own insecurities. It happens to the most of us. When we love and cherish something, we tend to protect it the most we can. Its normal for you to feel this way. Just try to control yourself on how you handle certain situations. Jealousy is a sympton that is hard to get over but its normal.
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reader, auvi  +, writes (1 December 2007):
well, it is called feeling insecure. sure you love him. but we always fear loosing what we love and it is absolutely natural. similarly we feel to protect your love . so this is why you get jealous. i would say it is perfectly normal...ps : sometimes guys like to see their girl jealous cuz it tells them that she still loves him . but dont do it too often
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