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writes:ive been going out with this girl since september and ive known her for about a year. the thing is she broke up with me after christmas because she said she wasnt happy and felt it was over and then asked me to get back with her 3 weeks later once we were back to college which we did and weve gotten on great. weve both been on work placement this semester so we're away from one another and only seeing one another every weekend or so and things have been good but in the last week or so we have had 2 or 3 arguements and she hasnt been herself since. Its just reminding me of the way she was last time when we broke up and i have a feeling that she might want to again. ive asked her is their something up and she says no its fine its grand nothings up but she's not very chatty or herself and it frustrates me that she wont talk t me properly in the last week or two. my question is do I try to work through it with her, or should we call it a day?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 I don't see a problem here rather than you are arguing over small things like "you don't call me enough," or "we don't have fun anymore." There isn't really anything to work through. If she has an issue of not meeting frequently enough you have to keep assuring her good things will come in the future. She is slowly detaching in order not to be disappointed again. Keep in touch so she doesn't get all indifferent. Speak positively.
"I miss you. Whenever I am available I will call you and meet up" makes a big difference than "I had a tough week. What can I do?"
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