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writes: I need LOTS of answers !!! PLEASE !!! My boyfriend says I don't ask him enough questions... He's usually doing all the talking, I'm just sitting there listening mostly because I love hearing his voice, (but I would never tell him that)and I don't know what to say or any questions to ask him.So if you have any good questions that are good to ask my boyfriend, then I wud love it if you would share them with me . Thanks in advance!*~VG~* Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL BIS SIS thank you for the compliment. It's just a like him so much I don't want to say somthing stupid or anyhting like that and I freeze around him . It's alot easier talking to people pn here and your not face to face and stuff I guess. lol thanks again for the compliment:) sugar sugar thanks for the advice .You had a lot of good advice that I just might use in my next convo I have with him.
And thanks for all the advice everyone !!! you've been a BIG help !!! thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL BIS SIS thank you for the compliment. It's just a like him so much I don't want to say somthing stupid or anyhting like that and I freeze around him . It's alot easier talking to people pn here and your not face to face and stuff I guess. lol thanks again for the compliment:) sugar sugar thanks for the advice .You had a lot of good advice that I just might use in my next convo I have with him.
And thanks for all the advice everyone !!! you've been a BIG help !!! thanks :)
*~VG~*
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): If you are only 13-15 then you are young to be worrying about stuff like this. Talk about music and bands, things that you like or just anything that may pop into your head. Do you have any hobbies, or shared interests? He cannot expect you to ask questions to order. Just relax and be yourself if this isnt good enough then you arent right for each other. My bloke likes the silent times too, which we all have, but mostly i do the talking and he squeezes a few sentences in.
take care and dont worry.
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 What are his favourite things to do? If he's passionate about music or politics get him talking about those.
Ask him about the best/worst moments in his life. Who and what has shaped him most in a person. Talk about people you both know (not bitching hehe).
Ask him about his family life, his friends, whatever aspect of his life that you don't really know about, what he was like as a child?!
His dream holiday location, dream job, where he sees himself in 10 years, his favourite thing to do with you.
If you have a myspace, have a look at those quizzes everyone posts.. there are always a few interesting questions on there!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 I suppose Vegas Girl has difficulty with her own problems because she is personally involved. People have difficulty dealing with their problems not only because they are new, but also because the senses get numbed.
Vegas, I suppose your boyfriend already noticed that he does all the talking, and might be feeling like he bores you or something. I think you should find a way to make him see that you do enjoy his company even if you won't say much. Some people are quieter than others.
If you don't want to mention that you like his voice, tell him that you're very interested in what he says and don't want to interrupt him. But you will need to speak yourself. Perhaps you can talk about the things you do together, or about something you did at school, whatever. As you would with a friend, only he's a boyfriend.
Take care.
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 Just out of curiosity, Vegas Girl, your an 'agony aunt', i've seen your questions and answers on here, how comes you can't think of anything to say? I'm surprised, because some of your posts are quite good.
BigSis xXx
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