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writes:well ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two months. My so called best friend keeps flirting with him and its getting on my nerves to say the least!!i comfronted her about it and she said i like flirting with him and im not gonna stop for you!! i was so angry,,, so keeps asking us for 3sums and she texts him 24-7.,. he has to empty his inbox of over 200 texts a day!!she is always asking him to go out when im at work!! he keeps saying no but she is so persistant i dont know what to do!much help would be appreachiated. She even going on his webpage and leaving loads and loads of messages!!!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 March 2007):
 I had a girlfriend like this when I was your age. She was always cornering ever boyfriend I had somewhere and flirting. I knew that I was dating the right guy when, after she cornered him in our swimming pool and asked "Oh - tee hee hee - Is my Mascara running?" My guy replied - "No, but your Haircolour is!" (blond hair, black roots). She was mortified, it put her in her place, AND she knew EXACTLY where she stood with him. Get your boyfriend to stand up for you and tell her he's not interested. I'm afraid that your girlfriend is jealous and probably no longer your best friend. Hope things work out for you. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): Tell your boyfriend to tell her to leave him alone and stop pestering him. If she just carries on doing it then tell him to ignore the texts and webpage messages. He'll do this is you mean anything to him. If he doesn't do this then dump him and move on.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (19 March 2007):
Get your boyfriend to tell her to F***K OFF. Its the only way to sort it out. She isnt a very good friend if she is doing this to you. Tell your boyfriend not to text her back EVER, and tell him not to laugh at her jokes or talk to her.
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reader, agony aunt j +, writes (19 March 2007):
 although this sounds a bit like you're ditching your friend for you bf, this is not the case - tell her to get lost! she cant be that much of a great friend if she refuses to stop "for you" i mean you are supposed to be friends!
also, you need to set it straight with your bf that he cant let that girl think he likes her back, lead her on. she'll only get the wrong impression and will be even more hassling. make him either not reply to any of her messages/emails etc or tell him to reply saying leave off i dont like you! it might sound harsh but believe me, this could be the only way to stop her.
as for the threesomes i think she's being a bit weird - a friend shouldnt be saying this 2 her best friends boyfriend! so you need to make it clear to her that she needs to get over it, but most importantly its up to your bf to tell her where she stands and make it crystal that hes not interested.
hope everything turns out ok
:):)
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reader, Bailey J +, writes (19 March 2007):
 Your BF must not text her back. This will lead her on. He needs to tell her exactly where she stands. You need to tell her she a shity friend if she cant except that he’s your boyfriend, and that you want nothing more to do with her. (you don’t need friends like that)
If you and your boyfriend stand strong on this and tell her that she needs to quit asking for 3sums (as this is very strange) and get a boyfriend of her own. Your BF needs to make it clear he wants nothing at ALL to do with her.
I hope it works our honey xx
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