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writes: He left himself logged in and curiosity got the better of me. I recognize the girl he spoke to and i think he's been with her in the past before me.Him: Hey 3Her: HeyHim: How are you baby?Her: Good thanks, yourself?Him: Good thanks. :) Do you think it would feel nice if i ate body chocolate off your boobs?Her: Haha :P I'm sure it would ;)Him: Is it bad that thats what I thought about when we said junk food snuggling together?Her: Very bad! :PHim: Ok, sorry. Hehe, ok. I'm really looking forward to seeing you soon, baby :)Her: Me too :)Him: I've missed you (as a friend before you get all worried). How's it going with the bf?Her: Good thank you :)Him: Good :) I was worried things were bad between you, when you said you were thinking about sex with me? I want you to be happy, hunnie, you really really deserve it, because your amazing.Her: No, things are fine with us. Just like things are fine with you but you still thought about me. Same thing.Him: Yeah...ok. Can i be honest?Her: Yeah?Him: I'm thinking those thoughts about you right now...Her: Oh. Why?Him: I don't know, I think it was because I was thinking about cuddling you, I can't wait to have you in my arms. Then I thought about licking body choclate off you... Sorry :( It goes on but i won't type anymore. How do i confront him? Is he cheating?
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reader, adamantine +, writes (4 January 2012):
My boyfriend left his email logged on to my computer one time, and I saw his chats with an ex and with other girls. He was calling them beautiful and gorgeous, and making inappropriate jokes. I told him about what I saw. If he had gone any further with it, like your boyfriend has, I would have dumped him then and there, because the entire time, I was under the pretense that I was the only girl.
Dump him. He is not worth your time.
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (2 January 2012):
You do know its over, right? Because this is cheating and there are no two ways about it. Just tell him the truth, tell him you saw his chat because it was right in your face and that you are done with him. Throw him out of your life OP, no second thoughts.
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (2 January 2012):
You must confront because this is not right.
You could be vague at first and say you saw evidence of cheating or say that someone copy and pasted you and sent you the chat. (could be her - could be her BF)
Or frankly I think you could just tell the truth and end it. I'm sorry this is happening to you but better to know the truth now.
Good luck.
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reader, jinxx +, writes (2 January 2012):
If he isn't, he wants to. That right there is MORE than enough. Get the hell out of that relationship, stat.
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