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male
age
36-40,
*jekim
writes: Been good friends with this girl for a long time now, I think almost a year. We dated when we first met, but at the time school got in the way and we had to end it :P She was recently seeing someone, so I kinda just setteled for being friends. She recently asked me to hang out with her and a friend to draw (were both artists) they started talking about how bad they're recent relationships had gone and she was single again, after the last few guys treated her like shit. After we were all done, we were alone so I told her I'd really like another chance with her, to try again. She said she really valued my friendship too much. On the way home I thought about it and decieded to send her an email that night. Basicly saying, I really card about her, and she was special to me. And that our friendship wouldn't be ruined eitherway. But no matter her decision, I wouldn't ask her out again and would respect her decision. The next day I got a reply back telling me she had fun doing the drawing thing and wanted to do it next week. However she still said no. That I was one of the few guys she trusted and whose friendship I valued and That I was an amazing guy and she couldn't wait to see me next week. I said thanks and I would respect her desicion. But I did comment on the fact I didn't quite understand her reasons, if she thought I was such an amazing guy and she trusted me lol but she never responded back. . But I emailed her later saying I might not be able to go again. It would e really hard for me to be around her, cause of how I feel about her. She sent me an email, saying she understood my decision but, that this was something she had been trying to do for a long time, but she guessed she would just have to draw alone. I texted her saying I didn't realize how important it was to her, that I could try to keeP going. She said I shouldn't feel obligated and she could find someone else. I said okay, but that that wasent how her email sounded, and I didn't want her to be unhappy. she didn't reply back What should I do? We're supposed to meet tommorow and I don't know. Should I just suck it up and deal, or not go again... It will really hurt me if she starts seeing someone else, but I'll be even more hurt if I made her unhappy.
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