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Make a move or stay away?

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Question - (4 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *r69 writes:

There's this one guy at my school and he said he loved me but he's 3-4 years younger than me (he's 15-16 and I'm 19). I love him as well (I'm a boy). He told me he was gay so what do I do here? Make a move with him or just stay away?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011):

Avoid like the plague. At least until he's over 18. I think that's the legal age of consent for gay men in this country. It's unfair, but the law's the law. If it ends badly he has ammunition against you and you could land in a lot of trouble.

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A male reader, jc2008 United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2011):

The younger one probably looks up to you as a strong older person who will look after him, support him etc. Nothing wrong with that tho they can sometimes be clingy, i'd say why not go on a date or something as long as you both are comfortable but don't push him too hard and also don't let him get carried away. Age 16 is legal in the UK.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (4 April 2011):

AvgGuy1 agony auntWell... there could be some legal ramifications (with the age difference - him being 'under age' and all). However, since I'm not a legal expert in the UK I'll just let you decide on whether it's ok legally for you to be with him.

Now... that said... if you both like each other. Go for it.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (4 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntHow do you know you love each other if you've never really been together?

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