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writes:If you're gay or bisexual, but not openly so, how do you approach members of the same sex? Especially when you're not sure of their sexuality. Like, how do you go about it, without going to a gay club or something. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): As I've said before; most girls are straight, until they're not. That said it would be easier to meet some gay folks instead of starting from scratch as so many of us have. It sounds lame but a lot of us hang out on free dating websites like OKCupid and gaydargirls. Don't knock it - it's gotten me places!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 If you're not open about your sexuality you wouldn't be going to a gay place either. If you are not open about your sexuality you wouldn't be able to find a person to be with, or approach them at all, because if you do approach them you are also giving away your sexuality!You just got to be open about what your preference is and flirt in the normal way. If you want them to know you like them and are interested you got to put yourself out there. You flirt. That's how you will know.
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reader, crazybeast +, writes (4 April 2011):
 Very hard is the only thing I can say, when I was younger I was only out to my mothers gay friends because they kinda picked up on it and asked me and even with there help it was still hard to uproach or find other GLBT to make friends/date.There are many organisations that help in meeting others in nearly all towns and cities in the western world it just might be a little hard to find such things, obviously there's online things you can try to find people to talk to and there are some pretty good websites in friend finding or finding such communities.Xx Beasty xX
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