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writes: my boyfriend and i are ready to take things to the "next level" problem is im a virgin and extremely nervous..the question is how much does a guy expect from a virgin for first time sex together and what can i do so i dont seem like im doing nothing? i really need some advice on this PLEASE Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): I think that you should tell your bf in an intimate sort of way that you want to learn how to please him sexually, and then ask him to guide you. I think a lot of guys would love that. Not that I'd know of course, since I'm a girl, but it's something I've been thinking about as well and I've actually asked male friends about it and all have said they'd be thrilled if their girl wanted to learn how to please him in bed.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Does he know you're a virgin and is he experienced? The way I got round it on my first time was to ask him to show me how he liked it and it took the pressure off. He knew I was a virgin so he took the lead and told me where to touch him, how to make him feel good etc. I'd recommend that!! Hope this helps.
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reader, Badger_Simon +, writes (14 January 2007):
 If you and you're boyfriend are truly ready for sex then its obvious he will be understanding of your doubts and paranoia. It may seem awkward at first but the key is proper communication. Because this is your first time together, he isn't going to know what you like and dislike, what turns you on as such. Just remember you're first time isn't about multiple orgasms, its simply about feeling comfortable with each other. So just relax and make sure its an enjoyable experience for you both, instead of being critical of yourself. I know its obvious but it has to be said, make sure you use protection, and have fun.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 Don't be nervous. It's going to be fine.
If your guy knows you're new to this type of activity, he will first of all feel very honored that you choose him to give it up to, and second: he will understand that you're nervous and hopefully do everything to make it a special occasion for you =)
I'm sure you're exciting to him as you are. If you want to do something for him, just follow your instincts, if he seems to like it; great. If it doesn't seem to do anything for him, just ask him what you can do to make him feel as good as you feel.
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