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writes:Hi. I'm almost 21 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a year and a half now. We are very happy and I believe we are made for each other. The problem is, I can't climax. We sleep together and we've tried so many times, nothing happens. It's not that I don't enjoy it, because I do, alot. Is there something I can do? Please help me..... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): If you cannot climax with stimulation, perhaps you can have your partner stimulate you orally until you climax. Ive had the same problem and oral sex usually works or i masturbate. I know it works because it works while i do it myself however, many women have deep rooted issues and have a problem with allowing themselves to enjoy sex. dont think, try to eliminate all negative thoughts and let it flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): I'm also in the same boat! I'm 18.. been with my bf for over a year. Totally in love with him and really enjoy sex, but just can't come. I've started masturbating a lot and I *think* I've got a bit nearer to having one, so I'm hoping if I carry on one day I'll get there! Sorry this isn't very useful, but I just thought I'd say there's more than 1 other person with the same problem. Post on here if you manage to get one! (with advice!)
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reader, Keria  +, writes (4 May 2007):
Try masturbating frequently. It's not foolproof, but it's fun and helps you to know your body better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): Hey India
Thx for your reply on my question. I must say now I don't feel so stupid anymore. Not that I wish it for anyone ells, but I does make me feel better knowing it's not just me with the problem. It helps to talk with someone that know's how you feel.
Thx very much. Hope things work out for you too. Good Luck
Yolandi
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
I could've written this. I'm 20 years old, dating my guy for a year and a half, we're very happy and everything and even though the sex is AMAZINGLY AWESOME, I can't orgasm to save my life. All though I don't have an answer for you, because I myself am not "cured" yet, I'm just letting you know that we're both in the same both.
I have faith that one of these days, I'll climax, and you will too. Try adding in vibrators!! That's lots of fun. Just letting you know that there's TWO of us in the same boat. We could make a club!
xxIndia
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reader, agony_emz +, writes (3 May 2007):
 well why dont you try a different approach to the way u lead up to having sex! why not make things more romantic like making dinner and having a relaxing bath together with candles so then you both are relaxed. or why not change the enviroment which can bring a thrill which both of you may enjoy!! or why not buy some sex toys or games to spice things up!! or simply talk to him about it or if you are scared of hurting his feelings why dont you domonate and try things your way and see if that works!!!good luck x
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