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writes:my partner of 5 years is everything in a man i have ever wanted, he has very endearing qualities and treats me like a princess.Then 3 weeks ago i found out he was flirting with another women at work and he stated he did not sleep with her and never wanted to it was just an ego boost and made him feel good because our relationship has been stressful due to work and children committments, to be honest i think i believe him because we are never apart unless we are at work and he does not go out without me at evenings or at weekends.secondly i found out that he has been texting gay men which he found a site from sky tv he states he is embarrassed and ashamed and says he just got a kick out of winding them up and he is not gay! and has never met anyone and never wanted to. I made him have a full sexual health check and i did also and everything was fine thank god. Normally i am very open minded but this has completly shocked me and im having difficulty coming to terms with it. He has stated that he will change jobs have councelling and change his mobile to help me to come to terms with this . He said if he was gay he would have gone off with another man by now. We love each other dearly and i dont want to let him go. Is he just curious or is he gay? Please can someone advice me on what to do ASAP thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondont seem to be getting much resonce from my question, im really confused about this man
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 Well I think he is doing all he can to assuage your worries. Changing jobs and counseling, what more do you want him to do? I think maybe a little counseling will help you as well. Give it some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhy am i not getting any replys to my dilema please please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007): please i need more responces my dilema
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