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writes:My girlfriend of several years and I have not had sex yet. We are both virgins. I have read that orgasm are very nice. How can I give her one? Is it possible to give her more than one? Is it possible for both of us to have one at the same time?
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 When you find something that makes her orgasm quickly, and when you are able to read when she is about to reach orgasm, you will be able to make her reach this point just as you are, so you can bring about a simultaneous orgasm, which is an amazing feeling =)
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 In my experience, it took quite a few times before I ever had an orgasm. I would feel like it was getting close, but would never happen. It takes awhile to get used to your own body and figure out what does it for you. The best thing to do is to experiment and try different things and ask your girl what she likes better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Luckily women can have loads of orgasms very quickly or over a long period of time. Unlike men, as Im sure you know.
I thihk its important to take your time when having sex to find out what your partner likes. Asking her whether it feels good during sex is a good way to find out. And if you like why not ask her to asisst you in doing it the way she likes, she may wish to guide your hand or just tell you what feels good.
The important thing to remember is that its the first time for both of you, so take it slow and dont go to fast. Just be aware that you may both be quite nervous and take your time finding out what the other person likes.
the rest will come to you naturally.
Enjoy yourself and relax.
xx
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reader, calamitysil +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Orgasms are indeed very nice, but also very hit and miss! Women don't always orgasm, and it's extremely unlikely that she will orgasm the first time the pair of you sleep together. For that to happen, you'll need to already know her body very well and what she needs you to do to turn her on and that takes a lot of practise! Every woman is different and what works for one, doesn't work for the other. Nobody can tell you how to give her an orgasm. You'll need to find that out yourself. Yes, it's possible for you to give her more than one orgasm as women are fortunate in that they can have several orgasms in one go. Simultaneous orgasms are usually more common in films and books than reality, but if you work on it enough, you may get lucky ;-)
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