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writes: How can I forgive people and put the past behind?and how do I erased the feeling for him from me faster eventhough we're staying together? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TEM +, writes (23 May 2011):
There's not enough here to give you an answer to the second question. I don't what feelings you have that you want to erase. My guess is there are things that bother you about the man you are currently with, and you want to know how to put those to rest because you have decided to stay with him, but you need to provide more information. It's tough to give advice when you have so little to go on.
About forgiving the people from your past, that is just a conscious decision. They are not in your life anymore, so there's no talking to them. You have to accept that what they did, they did because they are only human and make mistakes just like the rest of us, and then you have to decide to forgive them.
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