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Photos show my b/f dancing with a girl but he says he was drunk and doesn't remember!

Q.   I been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He is 22 and im 18. he barley goes out with his friends out to the bars. so this past weekend i went to a club with my friends (oh btw we live 3 hrs away. so we see each other every other weekend.) anyways ...

A.   8 June 2011: thank you, this helped a lot... (read in full...)

In a working relationship, have a major crush on another girl.

Q.   I've been dating this great girl for almost 6 months now. However, I've now met someone who I'm pretty sure would be a better match for me in many ways. I have a major crush on her. I don't have any particular issues with my current girlfrie...

A.   29 November 2010: aw you seem like a guy who cant break a girl's heart. but really sooner or later your going to end it with this girl. yea your both are going to hurt but before trying to make someone else happy you need to put your happiness first. my opinion as a ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to feel about him still talking to his ex.

Q.   So this boy I have been talking to for two months now, I just found out he is still talking to one of his ex's. When we first started talking, we were, "together" but he broke up with me when he found out I cheated on him. So we actually stopped ...

A.   29 November 2010: ok i don't believe in talking to ex's. ex's are ex's for a reason. but since your not official with him, just get over it. but if you guys date again, yea say something!... (read in full...)

Should I just delete her number and forget about her??

Q.   Hi guys. Wonder if you can help me on something here. I've known this girl for a while, only on seeing each other and saying hi. The other night I bumped into her and we started talking and we ended up going for a drink. We went to a bar and we e...

A.   29 November 2010: yea leave her alone, don't get your feeling more involve before you end up hurt. she seems like she isn't sure of her feeling. ... (read in full...)

Sweet gesture???

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and I want to do something sweet for him, but I'm not sure what to do... Any advice...?...

A.   29 November 2010: take him out to dinner at his favorite place to eat and pay! or cook him his favorite meal! or buy him something he been wanting really bad! :)... (read in full...)

I'm scared that my boyfriend is cheating on me!

Q.   I love my boyfriend so much, that i would do almost anything for him. I love him and i tell him that i love him every night. He says he loves me too but i am convinced he is cheating. Well it started like this... I went on our shared laptop an...

A.   29 November 2010: he is avoiding the conversation, and he has you under control and he knows you wont leave him. he is def cheating on you. for you sake, break up. its hard, but all worth it later. just think of him with that girl and it will give you the strength to ... (read in full...)

She told me graphic details about her past that I can't get out of my head!

Q.   Hi, I'm 23, and I have been seeing my girlfriend since I was one month shy of 22. She was my first, and before her I was a virgin. However, she has had a few ex-boyfriends. Anyway, I was talking to my girlfriend as she was sorting out photos on the ...

A.   29 November 2010: first of all! why the hec would she tell u about her sexual past with her ex's! thats just wrong. no one wants to think of it, because i too would keep picturing in my head it normal thing. if you love her get over it, but if not move on!... (read in full...)

I know being with a married man is wrong but ...

Q.   It's almost a year since our last time to talk about us with my married man,i thought i was get over with him but now we started all over again.I promise to myself that i will do my best to get over with my feelings to him but unfortunately, i still ...

A.   2 November 2010: If you love him and if you really meant something to him, dont you think he would have left his wife? dont be with a marry man, stop it. dont destroy a relationship. you dont want to live with that guilt. dont do something you wouldn't like someone ... (read in full...)

Unappreciated!

Q.   my boyfriend and i been dating for a year and 6 month. we always get in argument when he goes out to hang out with his friends because first of all his friends are all single and they talk about getting with girls all the time. btw we are in a long ...

A.   2 November 2010: I know what you mean, but every time i say something negative, he try to blame it on me. so im just tired of telling him when something is wrong, because its pointless. and right now he acting normal, but I'm not. im not saying i love you or being ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex but am afraid of the "what ifs"

Q.   I am a 20 yo male and have never done it before. I have a gf who is also virgin and we have been hinting sex to each other. I want to do it, but I fear for many things. I fear that she will feel pain during it, that the condom might break, that she ...

A.   1 November 2010: well, she should get on some type birth control before you guys do it. its better for both of you guys to be safe. and trust me its going to hurt for her, but its normal, and its your first time, its understandable and if u don't please her the ... (read in full...)

My son's 18 year old friend wants to have sex with me - I'm 45! What do I do?

Q.   I'm a 45 year old woman and I have a eighteen year old son. My son has a friend who is also eighteen. Yesterday I found out he is possibly going to Iraq within a month. He told me he's had a huge crush on me and that he wanted to have sex with me ...

A.   26 January 2010: Re-read ur question and ask ur self if it sound right? to me it sounds gross and immature to even consider that! ... (read in full...)

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