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anonymous
writes:Hey - I found out i was pregnant last week and just told my boyfriend 3 days ago. We've been going out for about a year now and I'm so scared he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. Ever since I told him, he hasn't contacted me once. I want to give him a bit of space, but he was so angry with me when I told him I thoought he was goin to hit me, but he just walked away.The whole pregnancy was his fault as he didnt wear a condom and didn't tell me till a week later and i have no idea what to do as i haven't yet told my parents. I can't tell my sister as she will tell my parents.Please help me! What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): hey dont freak out over whats happening your boyfriend is probably as scared as you. You should tell your paretns you'd be surprised how suportful they can be so dont worry, have a talk with your parents and if your boyfriend doesnt contact you soon, you should realise that he wasnt the best to begin with
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Other than in a rape BOTH parties are responsible, equally. How could you not have noticed he wasn't using a condom? Well that's a moot point a this juncture. I checked out the site that stina recommended and it's excellent. Go there and read the tips then tell your parents. I hope things work out for you.
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reader, stina +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Hello anonymous,
I wrote a response to a similar question earlier today. You may want to take a look at that question, as well, because it may help you out, too. So far, there have been five answers to the other question.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-tell-my-boyfriend-that-im.html
Take care.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Eventually you will have to tell your parents.
But right now tell someone whom you can trust.
First, learn how to deal with negative attitude toward you by some people around - please ignore them.
Second, in case you will not get support from your Family, you should get support from the Community.
Look around for people who have been in a similar situation and have a POSITIVE attitude to it.
You will get more practical advice and care from them.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (21 May 2007):
 You must tell your parents. From there, it's your responsibility to take legal action against him, and force him to take responsibility for his child. You also need to be in contact with his parents and let them know what's going on.
DV1
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