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writes:I am not sure shall I send a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. During the past two years, both of us had experienced a lot of things. We started from nothing to friends and then to closest friend. Later, she invited me to her home to have dinner with her family.However, she fancied another guy at the second year. He used her as a standby girlfriend and I was the only one who warned because I felt she had the right to know. She was extremely angry for what I siad to her but later when they broke up she came back to say thanks for me since I was the only one who warned her.Whenever she is down I am always there for her. For example, I spent an hour after school talking to her and relieving all the pain she had when she got dump. During that time, she siad loads of her ex, which was a mental torture for me but I did it for her. I cried afterward. I love her but I have kind of meet to a point where I don't want to get hurt anymore. I don't want to leave her but my logical mind kept telling me to protect myself from getting hurt. I am a normal human too. I feel pain, sorrow and despair. She knows I love her. No matter what happens to her, I still love herThe goodbye is really sad because I am exhausted, despair and full of sorrow. I don't hurt her but I feel I have too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help :)
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Well, maybe she is equating you with pain and sadness from her Relationships and her everyday hang ups.
I think presenting yourself as a stand up guy is great.
Be there for her good times, make great times!
Also don't be too available, and when you can create some excellent joyful moments. You also might be living through her sorrowful times to elate some of your own.
Don't go sorrow, go soaring. Make it wonderful!
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Talk to her, tell her that you love her and want to be with her. If she wants to remain just friends then it is time for you to move on. Date other women until you find one who is perfect for you and can love you as much as you love her.
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