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writes: I met a guy online, we have been texting and phoning eachother for 3 months now, the prob is that im unsure if he just wants sex. When we first started texting he asked did i want to meet up and spend the night with him. I made it clear that I wasn't up for that, he stopped contacting me, but then started texting me again and phoning me. Things seemed to be different, like we where on the say page, he told me he really liked, he was very considerate, thoughtful and contacts me everyday. He has told me that he is shy, he's says im beautiful...Then we agreed to meet up, me making it clear it was just to talk and he seemed totally fine with this, then cancelled at the last minute saying he had to work, he still contacts me but seems a bit distant then before, just when i thought maybe he's not just after sex...Im very confused.Please help, does this man just want to get me into bed or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for you help, I thought I might have been imagining this, but you are spot on. I think its time to move on from this guy. This seems to happen alot with guys online, Im considering ditching online dating altogher.Thanks again for your input.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): More on this http://www.dearcupid.org/question/guy-asks-me-outnow-he-is-gone-very.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Yeah it's all about the sex.I bet if you asked him to come over and spend the night he would be over as fast as he could.He's full of crap OP his actions don't match at all. He talks all sweet and nice but his actions say he's a bit of a gowl really.He's just changing tactics every time. He's playing games.
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reader, honestman  +, writes (5 April 2011):
"Please help, does this man just want to get me into bed or what?"Yes, this guy seem like he wants to get you in bed. No guy should treat you badly if you refuse having sex with him. Listen, I have had many friendships before, and many girls which I liked. But I never had sex with them, because I'm not like that. I have only had sex with my girlfriend, and feels right because we are in a committed relationship. If the guy don't want any kind of commitment, it is very bad idea of just hanging with him just to have sex. Yes, it is every man's fantasy, but once the fantasy ends, and he finds other woman that gives him sex, you'll probably get dumped, or an STD. If you decide to spend nights with him intimately, what you are going to do is start loving him, and wanting to have more than just sex with him, and he won't be able to give you what you need because he doesn't want a relationship of any kind. So be careful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Yes I think he does just want to get you into bed. Not only that, but if he cancelled at the last minute and has been acting distant it also probably means he is dating someone else, so don't be surprised if you find out he is. But just the fact that you know that he is probably just after sex hopefully is enough info for you to turn the page on this one.
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