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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): I asked my BF and he said that he trys to think of none sexual things, so he can last longer LOL. If he cant control it he thinks of how could it feels.
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (18 March 2007):
doing my tax returns, football or what im going to eat after usually lol...joke
personally its usually about how good it feels and if shes happy...you tend not to have 'logical' thought during sex, the animal mechanics take over
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (18 March 2007):
I asked my boyfriend, and he - like Dragonette's boyfriend - said that he's not doing that much thinking. Not verbal thinking anyways. He's thinking mostly about how good it feels. When the sex starts, mostly his penis is doing the thinking...
He says he's also thinking about me and how much he likes me, but I think he just threw that in to make me happy. I think mostly he's thinking about how good it is!
Don't worry, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): I think it definitely depends on what kind of sex and who you're with. For me it is more of a feeling (of pleasure) than thoughts. Sometimes it's love pleasure and other times it's more sex pleasure, I've never found myself thinking of anything outside of what's going on and have never fantasied about being with anyone different thought.
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reader, dragonette +, writes (18 March 2007):
I asked my guy what he was thinking of, hoping to get some juicy fantasies out of him, but he said that generally he's not thinking, just focusing on how it feels.
But yeah, I have heard of guys thinking about football or things like that when they want to last longer.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (18 March 2007):
Obviously I'm not a guy but I have spoke to guys about this and I was shocked! When they're with a girlfriend, they said they wanted to control themselves so thought about random, non-sexual things. When they were on one night stands and didn't fancy the girl, they said they fantasised about famous people and other situations!
I found that quite disturbing. Guys eh?!
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