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I'm no longer the popular girl and I don't like it!

Q.   Hello. I've had this big problem with some friends. I have always been that popular person and I'm happy with that. But recently this girl started getting popular and I got really jealous cause most of my friends would rather hang out with her...

A.   7 January 2012: Guys like that sometimes are just attracted to girls who are most popular at the moment... I hope everything works out for you though because jealousy is like a terrible feeling that can make you come off really ugly. How about you try an... (read in full...)

Is my size normal for my age?

Q.   i want to know if my penis size is normal im 16 and my penis is only 7 and a half inches...

A.   7 January 2012: Actually it's a little bigger. So cheers!!... (read in full...)

Why does he choke me or restrain me during sex?

Q.   The guy im having sex with will start to choke me or pin me down right before im going to orgasim. if i push his hand away from my neck or move away from his hold he will stop and hold back for a bit. then it starts all over again. he wont let me ...

A.   6 January 2012: Uh.... he sounds like a creep and seems very dangerous. I suggest you stop having sexual relations with this guy or the next time you might not make it out alive. (Not even kidding)... (read in full...)

Are we ready for a threesome?

Q.   Hi! Want to know if you think we are ready for a threesome. We have been married for 6 years and have children. We both come from a conservative Middle Eastern background, we are not fully liberal but both are relatively open minded. W...

A.   4 January 2012: Don't do it. If she isn't a hundred percent down for it then you will pay for it big time later!!... (read in full...)

Whenever we get even close to having sex I stop my boyfriend. Am I afraid of sex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and I know we're both ready to move on to the next part of our relationship, meaning sex but we're both virgins and the whenever we get even remotely close to doing something I stop him. I ...

A.   3 January 2012: Have you tried relaxing like when you are getting around to being intimate and preparing for sexual intercourse.... Why not focus on how much you want it and how much you love your boyfriend versus the actual process of having sex. Ju... (read in full...)

When is it ok just to give up because you don't know what to do???

Q.   Hey everyone that takes time to read my question!!! But in just Really sad and down. I've posted on here a couple of months back about me not having a way to school and how I don't know what Should I do?!! Its a new year ( Happy 2012) but same pro...

A.   3 January 2012: Just keep going. It's the new year... I've never dated and last semester of school was hard to the point I wanted to quit. I lost 2 friends (my choice) and when life just seems to be at it lowest you just have to smile and continue onward because ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with her, but she wants nothing to do with me

Q.   there this girl I loved when I was young and I feel like I still do, you see this girl was the girl who got my attention in a way I couldn't imagine and the way I felt about her before was beyond amazing and when ever I saw her, I always told myself ...

A.   3 January 2012:  I say try one more time...maybe ask her out on a simple date and if she still wants nothing to do with you. Then I am so sorry but you will have to move on and completely forget her. Find someone else who wants to be with you and that will tru... (read in full...)

I'm a boy and I like the guy that helps me in History. How do I tell him?

Q.   I'm an 18 years old boy and I'm bi. I've got a guy that helps me in History and he's 28 and, to be honest, I really like him as a man. I'm 99.9% sure he's gay, based on the way he acts, speaks etc and sometimes, when he's into his teaching very much ...

A.   3 January 2012: When he comes and help you. Just simply ask him if he would like to get drinks and see what he says....... THEN you can possibly get a better read on him and prepare to ask him out on a real date. Good luck!!!... (read in full...)

Why can't my boyfriend just tell this girl he isn't interested?

Q.   Hi, I need some help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. During this time there has been another girl in the background. They do have a past were they were once friends which led to a bit more but nothing serious came of it. Howe...

A.   2 January 2012: I'm sorry to hear about your situation but if he hasn't cut all ties after knowing that she makes you uncomfortable and that it is putting stress on yall relationship then I do not think he ever will. I think you should talk to him one more tim... (read in full...)

My friends hang out without me

Q.   Am I wrong for getting mad when my friends hang out without me.... When they were mad at eachother they talked to me all the time but then when I helped them patch things up they don't talk to me unless one gets mad at someone and need to vent which ...

A.   2 January 2012: Wow..... that was the best advice I've ever read.:) I kinda acted out of anger and deleted everything of them because at they hated each other and I had a good relationship with both of them and then when I helped them reconcile they seem to hang ... (read in full...)

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