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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello aunts and uncles there's something about the relationship btw my bf and his close friend (let's call her J) that's bugging me. The other day I asked how his day out with J went and he told me that she said she loved him out of the blue. And it wasn't "I love as a friend", it was just "I love you". And on midnight, she requested to sleepover at my bf's house (he lives alone) but he refused. Sadly it was also the night where he sent me a string of messages saying he was unhappy in the relationship and my curfew was a big obstacle in our relationship. While things are fine btw him and me now I can't help but be wary of his friend. She likes giving him really tight hugs as well. They go out a one to one on many occasions and sometimes I can't help but feel neglected as a gf but he always gives the reason that I can't hang out with him till late at night hence he hangs out with her. But I've also heard that she has a shoddy relationship with an attached guy. Am I too paranoid or is she trying to make a move on my bf? If I talk to him about it, he always defends her and say that such actions are normal btw close friends but I don't even do that with my best guy friend! Especially not in asian culture. Please help :(
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Sweetheart, she is making a lot of moves on your bf and he enjoys the attention he gets from her. Tell him you can't put up with this any longer. If he still hesitates, dump him. If your guy he had any regard for you and your relationship he would have put her in her place. You can find a guy who respects you and your curfew.
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