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writes: My girlfriend of 9 months is a strange one, she acts like shes single all the time, getting over exited and showing me up when were out with our mates (which is all she talks about doing which frankly does my head in). before we got together she was very close (flirting/kissing) with my best mate who i lived with at the time (she was also going out with someone else), and she always talks about going round his house cause thats where our mates go most of the time, she still gets on with him really well for some reson i feel very threatened because she treats him better than me sometimes. i have made it clear i dont want her going round there without me because the last time she went round that house without her boyfriend she ended up cheating on him with me!. she has very little self control and is extremely selfish sometimes, im sick of having a go at her for all these things and its like talking to a brick wall, she just apologises and tells me she loves me but its not enough - i either want reason for her actions or a change in them full stop!I have thought about ending the pain a good few times but i am so in love with her she really could be the one, when we are happy its great, but the way she acts is just unbelieveable sometimes. There is so much more to it but im gonna keep it short.What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): These issues, this early .. she is not 'the one' (if there is such a thing. It doesn't sound like you even like her. You should finish it.
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