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writes:I know this is a very random question....Lately i have been thinking how uncomfortable with my boobs..i want to go and have plastic surgery (stupid idea..i know) on the nipple area..so tonight i took some pictures of them to see if they are normal looking from another view...but i am still unsure what can i do? and no boyss/guys i will not send them.....im very insecure with how my whole body lookss and im uncomfortable with myself..i want at least one thing i can be ok with...You guys can know my age its not a big deal...im 17...Thanks for your help....
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reader, Katy.  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Everyone has a different body and a different figure, and everyone is definitely insecure about something on them, which everyone else seems to find completely silly.I'm personally really against plastic surgery and that, as you are born the way you're born and any issues you have with your body are just part of who you are and the right people in your life will accept you for anything. I hated my boobs too, I'm fifteen and almost completely flat chested and iI hated my nipple areas too, until i saw some images of other women and realised how lucky I really was. At the end of the day there's always going to be someone worse off than you.Learn to love your body and others will too, surgery might make you feel better but its not who you were born as and no-one can change that, whether it's issues with your nose, your belly or in your case your boobs, your perfectly normal no matter how much you may think not, everyone's different.hope that helped obit, (:Oh and as others said, you have to wait until your boobs have fully developed anyways, who knows you may completley love them this time next year (;
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reader, asian tealeaf  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 ur still developing sweety, so its more optimal to wait to ur bodies fully done growing then, decide if u still want to. im 31 yrs, asian and very small. while a lot of guys think small breasts with nice size nipples r hot, i am not happy with my size,, im a minus 32 a cup, i have to shop for training bras all the time. it depressses me, my bf has already promised to buy me my breast surgery, but i am still scared if its the right thing, mind u i only want a nice full b cup. no more. my mode of thinking is this, u want surgery, go with something realistic to ur body frame, as bigger is not always better!!! a lot of women opt for bigger larger breasts and, whoa! what the hell were they thinking? some love it, but u may see them and think, holy crap, too big for such a small frame...etc. be realistic. thats all. do it for ur own happiness not because u think going bigger is going to make men happy.
in my culture, in the old days men used to bind womens feet to it shrunk to 3 inches. ouch. it was considered beauty. learning from this and other fashions designed for the whims of men, its not worth it to under pain and grief for the attraction of men. do things that willl be physically comfortable and appealing for urself. not others.
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reader, cian +, writes (26 March 2009):
 At your age, it would be worth waiting to let your breasts fully grow in before pursuing cosmetic surgery. Perhaps there are still some changes that need to take place.
Talk to your GP doctor and let them assess your issues properly.
If anything, you may be happier in the end if you wait.
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