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writes:I really like this girl. I just need some advice on how i can talk to her more, find out what she's interested in? How do i do that without being too obvious. We are goin out on a date, but i want to know her bit more and make her feel really easy with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, miss fit +, writes (21 June 2007):
the last tme i was in this situation i wasted time(ok,about three years)and then the guy left town.lifes too short, ask this girl out for a cup of coffee. if she says yes then great, if she says no then there are plenty more fish in the sea. good luck!!
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (21 June 2007):
 well if u don't want to be obvious but u want to find out u should get her MSM (thats if she got one). just ask her questions bout her that doesn't mean u fancy her it just shows u are interseted in her views and stuff and girls like that. just be cool ask questions and talk about urself a little. im sure it will be fine and even if u don't start dating u may have a m8 good luck xxxxx
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Maybe you should get her MSN? just say " listen, do you have MSN?" just casually! Talk to her through that, it's easier to tell her about things online.
Maybe talk to her about her family, what she enjoys doing, favourite food.. there's so much you could talk about and get close to her through that.
Worked for me! xx
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reader, Ask_HanBan +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Dont put ur heart on the line but try and strike a mutual conversation about summit that both you and her like.
u never know, she could like u 2!
gd lk with it
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reader, Paula4u +, writes (21 June 2007):
 It all depends on where you live, work etc.. but.. a big smile and introducing yourself...? Perhaps ask her for a cup of coffee in a very public place and simply say you really think she is gorgeous and would she like to join you for a cup of coffee. Make sure it is totally polite, break the ice, hand her a rose when you ask her... that should break the ICE?? if she comes you can find out about her as much as you like by talking. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): hi
just relax tell her a bit about your self she will normally respond and then talk about herself if you have only known her for a week or something dont get to personal stick to the generral things dont freak her out with any freaky experiances thats all i got
so remember keep your cool and just have fun but no intensnace, the first date is all about getting to know each other
c ya
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reader, nologo  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Listen, you are going out on a date.
It is your first date with this girl.
This is based on first impression that you "like this girl".
Why should you rush things to risk a potential relationship?
And there is risk if you look for similarities at this stage.
Just "spend time" with her and it should be easy and natural.
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