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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem that has been stressing me out and causing me to be quite mad and it's making me feel bad...Let me start off, I like this guy ever since I met him in September last year. Ever since, mutual friends had been commenting that we like each other, we would look cute together, ect. They are still commenting that we would be cute together to this day. I think one of my teachers would be like "awww" if we did go out, too... It is a bit annoying because I do like him...I do talk to him during school as much as I could. But outside of school, I try to talk to him via text but that doesn't go far. One of my friends talks to him outside of school perfectly fine. I have no problem with that but when I asked him if he has her number he lies about it and has no. So, that pisses me off. Also, that same friend knows that I like him. When I told her, she said "I HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL YOU BUT I CAN'T TELL YOU!! It doesn't involve you though." Which makes me wonder what it is about. It doesn't involve me so it must involve him and I want to know. It pisses me off so much. Every time I see her or talk to her, I get mad. She's one of my best friends and I just hate myself for feeling this way. I kind of have a plan. This week, I would talk to him as much as possible to figure him out. If it works out well, I'll tell him about my feelings this Friday. Next week is my vacation off school. So, if it works out, I have the vacation to be with him. If it doesn't, I have the vacation to get over him.I'm doubting my plans because when I got out of a class with him, we were walking together but I had to go to my locker so he went to his next class. A mutual friend saw us and commented that it was cute that we were together but that he likes someone that goes to a different school... I do have a clue on who it is. Should I continue my plan about him? and How can I stop my feeling of hatred towards my best friend?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Don't let others opinion influence you. If you think it is alright to tell him your feelings, just go ahead with it.
Just change your attitude towards her. Be a sport and be fair .May the best man/woman wins.
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